People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON . . . Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Relationships..its all about WORK WORK N MORE WORK!!!...why do some people think that once you've hooked up with that guy or girl their work is done? HARDLY!! When you find someone you like one tends to mold oneself to become their object of affection by "liking" the same things...listening to the same music...goin to the same places of interest that person does...dressing up and speaking and behaving in a certain manner that that person likes saying all the right things that you KNOE they want to hear but then once the honeymoon period is over.. BAM!!...you tend to go back to your old ways and the person is left wondering who the hell they fell in love with in the first place...
Yes, we all have faults but isn't it better to show those faults right from the start so that your potential significant other KNOES what he/she is getting into that way it leaves no chance for misrepresentation and that person could never ever say you lied to them about who you are or that you're not the person they had fallen in love with..Hey...at least you'd never be accused of leading the person on and you'd KNOE they love you for all the right reasons...
Just coz you've got that special girl in your life doesn't mean you don't have to still make all the little efforts you did or made during the courting period...dont ASSUME she knoes you still love her or that you're thinking of her or that you're missing her when you don't give SOME kind of sign be it physically or verbally or by doin something nice for her! She still wants to get a call from you, a compliment, or a text msg...heck! she'd even settle for a post-it note! : P She still wants to be assured that you love her...she NEEDS to hear it and no I'm not saying you have to tell her every min of every hour (if she DOES want that, might be high time to start revaluating your relationship because it's a sure sign shes insecure in the relationship) Sometimes all it takes is a kind word like, "You look great" even when her hair is in a mess and her make up is running...lol: P
And of course, that doesn't mean guys don't want the same thing back from their gal!! They still want to know you love them when they're being a jerk or sulky because they had a bad day...they want to know it's ok to come home and lay their head on your lap without having to say anything and know you'll cuddle them even if it's just for a few mins...that you still love them even when they're bawling like a little baby because they hurt themselves...AND...that you don't think them less of a man for it!...that you'd still hug him even when he comes home all grubby after a hard day @ work...(just hold your breath heheh :P itll be over in 5,4,3,2,1!! Then you can tell him to get his grubby ass to the shower hehehe) but the bottom-line is...he wants to know he can drop all pretences when he's ALONE with his baby girl...that he doesn't have to be some macho guy who always has the answers...doesn't always have to know HOW to handle a situation but at least be willing to try
All in all...one has to WORK to keep a relationship strong and fresh and exciting so that neither party can ever use it as an excuse to stray...to find something or someone new, fun or adventurous! Pft!.. :P Compromise obviously comes to play a fair bit in a relationship as you have TWO people with separate ideas or believes on how some things should be done when it comes to certain things...as they work TOGETHER to not only share their ideas n believes with their partner but to also get them to see where theyre coming from...
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Don't walk away like you always do, this time.
Baby, you're the only thing that's been on my mind.
Ever since you left, I've been a mess
(You won't answer your phone)
I'll say it once, then I'll leave you alone
But I gotta let you know
I wanna get back
To the old days
when the phone would ring
and I knew it was you.
I wanna talk back
And get yelled at
Fight for nothing
Like we used to
Oh hold me [radio version],
Oh kiss me [album version],
like you mean it
Like you miss me,
cause I know that you do.
I wanna get back
Get back with you
ayaaa...
don't look at me that way, I see it in your e-e-eyes.
Don't worry about me, I've been fine
I'm not gonna lie, I've been a mess Since you've left
Everytime I see you, it gets more and more intense.
I wanna get back
To the old days
when the phone would ring
and I knew it was you.
I wanna talk back
And get yelled at
Fight for nothing
Like we used to
Oh hold me,
like you mean it
Like you miss me,
'cause I know that you do.
I wanna get back
Get back with you
You were the only one I wanted
You were the first one I fell for
You're the only one that I'm in need of
And I don't want to be lonely anymore
I wanna get back
To the old days
when the phone would ring
and I knew it was you.
I wanna talk back
And get yelled at
Fight for nothing
Like we used to,
Oh hold me
like you mean it
Like you miss me
Cause you know you do
I wanna get back
Get back, with you
(Get back!) Get Back!
(Get back!) Get Back!
(Get back!) Get Back!
(Get back!) Get Back!
Oh hold me,
like you mean it
Like you miss me
cause I know that you do
I wanna get back
Get back
I wanna get back
get back
Get back
Get back
Get back!
yaooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Remember those walls I built
Well, baby they're tumbling down
And they didn't even put up a fight
They didn't even make up a sound
I found a way to let you in
But I never really had a doubt
Standing in the light of your halo
I got my angel now
It's like I've been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin'
It's the risk that I'm takin'
I ain't never gonna shut you out
Everywhere I'm looking now
I'm surrounded by your embrace
Baby I can see your halo
You know you're my saving grace
You're everything I need and more
It's written all over your face
Baby I can feel your halo
Pray it won't fade away
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
Hit me like a ray of sun
Burning through my darkest night
You're the only one that I want
Think I'm addicted to your light
I swore I'd never fall again
But this don't even feel like falling
Gravity can't forget
To pull me back to the ground again
Feels like I've been awakened
Every rule I had you breakin'
The risk that I'm takin'
I'm never gonna shut you out
Everywhere I'm looking now
I'm surrounded by your embrace
Baby I can see your halo
You know you're my saving grace
You're everything I need and more
It's written all over your face
Baby I can feel your halo
Pray it won't fade away
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
Halo, halo
Everywhere I'm looking now
I'm surrounded by your embrace
Baby I can see your halo
You know you're my saving grace
You're everything I need and more
It's written all over your face
Baby I can feel your halo
Pray it won't fade away
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
I can feel your halo halo halo
I can see your halo halo halo
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BUT this time you don't need a treasure map to find it!!! Just click on the link below ;)
X Dealer
has been one of my closest and longest friends here on Fubar and always never fails to make me smile! He's a complete sweetheart and if you don't have him on your friend's list...you're missing out on a gem of a friend!
So let's correct that oversight! He's 42,201,836 Points to becoming an Angel! Well...he's already one in my book. Please help me to show him some love and bring him that much closer to levelling!!
X Dealer®
@ fubar
While your there, might as well B/A/R/F all over him :)!!!
IF you rate his profile pls let me know so I can buy ya a drink!!
Much ♥ & thanks!!
Little pimpout brought to you by:
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@ fubar
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