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THE SEXEST THING TO DO AFTER SEX!!!! It's a head-scratcher. Having sex puts men to sleep but wakes women up. So while you're craving a little postcoital closeness with your man, he's zoned out in front of Saturday Night Live reruns or catching some zzz's. Why? Unfortunately, the cocktail of sex hormones released after both women and men climax can have the opposite effect on our postsex wish list. "Studies show that following intercourse, the male brain often goes into a rest state -- he feels drained and tired -- while the woman's brain is stimulated and intensely desires bonding," explains Michael Gurian, therapist and author of What Could He Be Thinking: How a Man's Mind Really Works. Fear not, though. We've overcome those biological obstacles and identified afterplay pleasers that will satisfy you both. Some are designed to short-circuit his snooze reflex and electrify his bod; others indulge his just-shagged daze while feeding your need for intimacy. Read on to discover the randy moves that will create the most pleasurable and satisfying after-sex moments you've had with your man yet. Pay Him a Carnal Compliment Guys are suckers for hearing about their sizzling sex skills. When you mention the mattress moves that drove you wild, it strokes his ego and makes him feel virile. "Men can feel anxious about their performance, so they really want to hear it from you that you had a good time in bed," says Judy Kuriansky, Ph.D., author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to a Healthy Relationship. Your flattering feedback will keep him from dozing -- he's definitely gonna stay awake for this performance assessment -- and kick-start light conversation, which you may be in the mood for right about now. So recall the evening's erotic events in detail, but don't go too over the top with your carnal confessions. "Whenever a girl raves about the sex but doesn't give specifics, I feel like she's blowing smoke up my ass," admits Ewan,* 27. To start, you can describe your favorite body lock: "That position where I got on top and we both straightened our legs -- wow!" Or opt for a little technique approval: "I really liked the way you kept so still while I was climaxing." Your dirty talk will stay with him long after your thong has been retrieved from the ceiling fan. "It leaves a sexy impression," assures Josh, 25. Plus, there's a long-term benefit to this booty wrap-up: It imprints your "Yes, please!" moments in his memory for next time. *Names have been changed. Give Him a Massage Just because the sex is over doesn't mean it's hands-off. Massage is a great way to maintain that physical connection for you, while prolonging his bliss buzz. Obviously, foreplay hot spots -- such as his privates -- will be a tender no-go zone. "There's nothing worse than a girl who keeps handling your goods after sex," complains Matt, 27. "It's never a good idea." So, you need to unlock the erogenous zones that will keep your guy in a state of ongoing pleasure, not pain. For a more relaxing and sensual session, position yourself so that you're lying on your side, facing him. "Trace light circles on his torso. Starting at the chest, move around the navel, skim the pelvic bone and continue back up," says Steve Capellini, massage therapist and author of Massage For Dummies. "Or stroke your fingertips from his collarbone down over his chest to his hip bones and back again." These moves allow you to tickle his fancy while still maintaining an intimate postpassion gaze. If you want him to reciprocate, tempt him into action with a more invigorating touch. Capellini suggests a technique called percussion. Have your guy lie on his stomach and straddle him. "Bounce the sides of your hands or push and tap your fingertips along his back and buttocks," says Capellini. While you enjoy the tactile thrill of having your legs wrapped around him, your touch encourages increased blood flow, which makes him feel energized rather than drained -- and may even inspire him to return the favor. Take a Shower When Cosmo asked guys about the most sexalicious thing women could do after getting busy, this was their number-one plea: Suggest a shower for two. It's a no-brainer. Any situation that has you hot, wet, nude and invading his personal space is bound to overpower his postcoital crash response. "I love being pulled into the shower by my girlfriend after sex. Her wet body rubbing against me -- it's all good," says Andy, 28. Start by taking turns slowly scrubbing each other's back, shoulders and neck. Then press up against your lover for some sexy snuggling under the shower stream, running your slippery, sudsy hands over his back and butt. The heat-soaked environment not only keeps your bods superclose, but it also actually prolongs the postorgasmic flush of your just-finished booty session. Here's how: "As the hot water hits your skin, it stimulates blood flow and circulation, which keeps your body feeling aroused," says Sandor Gardos, Ph.D., a sexologist in San Francisco. If all this postcoital closeness inspires something frisky to unfold between you and him, go there. But ultimately, being so together after being so intimate is often enough of a rush. Touch Yourself If the first romp has left you yearning for a repeat performance -- but he's totally wiped out -- turn your attention downstairs for some self-stimulation and leave the invitation open for him to take over. "Guys need time to recover before they can go again, and this is only made more difficult if they feel pressured," says Kuriansky. "So let him know you had an amazing time and you just want him to be there while you make the most of how aroused you feel." Whether he joins in or not, guys love to watch, so it's a win-win situation. "A woman touching herself next to me in bed? That's about as good as life gets," says Christian, 25. Even if your ménage-à-moi doesn't tempt him out of retirement, you finish on a high note, and he gets a private peep show. Snuggle Up The ultimate compromise between his and her postcoital cravings is the snuggle up. Being held after sex feels so good for you, while he gets to kick back and indulge his snooze reflex. And the good news is, it's somewhat of a mattress myth that men are turned off by a little after-sex cuddling. "There is an assumption that men are more emotionally detached from intercourse than women are. But a lot of them do want to feel that closeness too," explains Carolynn Hillman, a sex therapist in New York City. Craig, 23, agrees. "I wouldn't announce it to my guy friends, but lying in bed together and holding my girlfriend after sex is a big part of the buzz." Of course, if your man isn't a throw-his-arms-around-you kind of guy, saying "hold me" sounds kind of lame. Instead, let him settle into a comfortable snoozing position and then wrap his arm around you or spoon him and enjoy that just-shagged feeling. Fun Fact: Crash or Dash? A guy is less likely to sleep over after a one-night stand because the hormone oxytocin, which makes him all lovey-dovey and contributes to his sedation, dissipates more quickly than when he's with a bona fide girlfriend. Source: Michael Gurian, therapist and author of What Could He Be Thinking: How a Man's Mind Really Works.

The Hottest Sex Tips on the Planet Stretch Out Foreplay Always rushing through the arousal stages of sex is a shagging shame. "In many cultures, seduction begins long before a couple gets to the bedroom," says Amy Sueyoshi, Ph.D., assistant professor of human sexuality and ethnic studies at San Francisco State University. "The mere knowledge that a sexual encounter is about to happen can be a huge turn-on." So take a cue from Korean women: "Before the sex act even begins, our readers will blindfold their boyfriends with scarves and then tantalize them by slowly dragging silk over their bodies from head to toe, lingering extra long around his pelvis area," says Kyung-Hae Yoon, editor of Cosmo in Korea. Kick this move up a notch by sliding the silk back and forth under his testicles while he's standing, and he'll be seeing stars. Extending the amount of fun you have before actual intercourse makes sex feel more like an all-night party than a flash in the pan, which is exactly why India's famous Kama Sutra has entire chapters devoted to kissing, caressing and oral sex. Another thing to keep in mind: There's no rule that says you can't have an orgasm during foreplay. "Whether it's done manually or orally, women should encourage men to take them all the way before intercourse even begins," says Sueyoshi. Have your guy stimulate your G-spot by inserting his finger into your vagina and applying pulsing pressure to the front (belly side) wall while he rhythmically strokes your clitoris with his tongue. Bonus: Intercourse after having an orgasm can be incredibly intense because your hot spots are already sensitized. Be Just as Gung Ho for Sex as a Guy Doing-it divas in countries like Australia, Israel and South Africa aren't afraid to turn the tables when it comes to traditional sex roles. "Aussie women don't get hung up on what's considered 'feminine' or not -- they generally have no problem initiating sex with a man they're attracted to," says Gabrielle Morrissey, Ph.D., an Australian sex expert and author of Urge: Hot Secrets for Great Sex. Clearly, patience is not a virtue when getting it on Down Under: According to a survey in Australian Cosmo, 38 percent of readers have gotten it on with a guy within 24 hours of meeting him. Israeli and South African women are just as likely to go after what they want. "In Israel, women join the army at the age of 18, and their fast, high-adrenaline lifestyle spills over into their sex lives," says Lea Kantor-Matarrasso, the editor of Israeli Cosmo. There's no doubt that instant gratification can sometimes be the best kind, so attack your boyfriend (or newly acquired boy toy) the very second you get the urge. Pin him against the wall with one hand (holding his hands over his head) and press your breasts and hips against him hard while unbuckling his pants with the other. Once his member jumps to attention, pull him down onto the floor on top of you. "It's a myth that whoever is on top is always in control," says Morrissey. "By thrusting your hips up and down, placing your hands on his butt, pulling him into you and kissing him hard, you can direct the action." That's not to say you shouldn't go for a ride. Try pushing him onto a chair, unzipping his pants, going down on him for a few seconds, then climbing on. He won't know what hit him, but he'll be happy as hell. For the ultimate in rough 'n' ready fun, try one of South African Cosmo readers' favorite bed games, called the Randy Wrestling Roll. Start by lying on your side facing each other, with your thigh flung over his hip, and guide his penis inside you, then entangle your arms and legs and start rolling around on the bed or carpet as you thrust into each other. The goal? See who can end up on top most often -- but in this game, everybody winsGo for Your Pleasure in the Sack Maybe we could all use a quick trip to Paris to give our sexual egos a boost. According to Sylvie Overnoy, the editor of French Cosmo, women in France are anything but shy when it comes to making demands in bed. "The attitudes of French women regarding sex are, one, speak your mind and, two, do anything you please," says Overnoy. Having sex exactly when and how you want is all the rage for Hungarian babes as well, who do the deed more often than the women of any other country -- 152 times per year, according to the 2003 Durex Global Sex Survey. Considering that Americans are hitting the sheets 118 times per year on average according to the Durex survey, there must be something Hungarians know that we don't. "The secret may be that Hungarian women won't let much of anything get in the way of having a good time in bed," says Hungarian Cosmo's editor, Anita Pocsik. "In some countries, having sex during your period may be taboo, but here, girls just throw down a red towel on the bed and it's business as usual." Hungarian chicks aren't afraid to ask for what they want either. "Hungarian women have no qualms about giving sexual instructions," says Sandor Gardos, Ph.D., a sexologist of Hungarian descent and founder of Mypleasure.com. "They know it doesn't have to be a long, drawn-out discussion -- all you have to do is take the guy's hand and move it where you want it or whisper a few specific commands." So the next time you're getting it on, moan the words "faster," "slower," "harder" or "softer." Or if you're already a vocal vixen, get on top and show him with his middle and ring fingers (his index finger won't feel as gentle) exactly how you want your clitoris to be touched. Don't be shy about getting specific and telling him precisely how much pressure you want from his tongue during oral sex, for example. "In several different studies, men have reported that the single most exhilarating moment of sex for them is when the woman they're with has an orgasm," says Gardos. "So the ironic thing about being selfish in bed is that you end up not being selfish at all." . Push Your Booty Boundaries Even if you can already think of a hundred ways to get turned on, why stop there? Italians, for one, are fabulous at finding new venues to stage steamy sessions. "Most of our readers live with their parents until well into their 30s, so finding places to have sex outside the house is a serious necessity," says Cinzia Felicetti, the editor of Italian Cosmo. In the Euro RSCG Love and Lust 2002 Survey, 88 percent of sexually driven Italians confessed to doing it in a car, and 16 percent have gotten busy on a plane or train. But you don't have to do it in the air, on the rail or in a public parking lot to have wild sex. You can steam things up at home by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink or hood of a car that's parked in your garage. Things get even hotter in Greece, where they boldly go where most cultures are too shy to venture. "Both men and women here enjoy anal sex, and no one considers it a big deal," says deputy editor of Greek Cosmo, Margarita Michelakou. Like bringing sex toys to bed or using flavored lubes, anal sex is just another option for spicing things up. For a more sedate version of bottoms-up fun, try gentle pressure on the anus, which can feel wonderfully intense because that area is so packed with sensitive nerve endings. To silently get the signal across that you're interested in going there, try massaging the outside of your own back door while doing it doggie-style so that he has a clear view of the action (his eyes will probably pop out of his head). Or just grab your own cheeks and pull them gently apart, helping him to penetrate you deeper vaginally. Yet another often ignored erogenous zone is the female perineum. While you probably already know that pressing on the male perineum (the area between his testicles and anus) feels amazing for men, you might not know that the same spot on your bod can be pleasurably potent. Ask your guy to either lick you there or rub that area with his fingers the next time his head is nestled between your thighs. Have a Secret Sex Life No, we don't mean cheating on your main squeeze. This is about discovering the booty benefits of dirty daydreaming and solo sex. According to the Penguin Atlas of Human Sexual Behavior, only 19 percent of U.S. women think about sex one or more times a day. And according to the text Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, almost 60 percent of U.S. women never masturbate. Yikes, looks like many of us could use a libido intervention, so let Brazilian and Spanish babes be your inspiration. "Young women in Brazil frequently plan parties with their friends where a sex coach teaches them new ways to please themselves and their partners and gives them tips on how to perform stripteases and use vibrators," reports Cynthia Greiner, the editor of Brazilian Cosmo. Another path to a secret sex life is pure fantasy, says Sarah Glattstein Franco, the editor of Spanish Cosmo. "Forty-eight percent of our readers use fantasies to reach orgasm both while masturbating and while having sex." The real shocker: Sixty percent of Spanish men and women say that the star of their sexual fantasies is their current partner. Simply letting your mind wander to the sexiest experience you can remember having with your beau is an easy way to get so turned on that you can't wait to have sex again. Or why wait at all? While picturing a sexy scenario, caress your breasts until your nipples are hard, stroke your stomach and upper thighs until you feel yourself getting wet, then slide your fingers between your vaginal lips and spread the wetness upward toward your clitoris. How fast and hard you rub is up to you. Be willing to try different strokes and pressures and go with what feels best. And get creative. Try doing it standing up and leaning against a wall or with one foot up on a chair while you watch yourself in the mirror. Once you see just how insanely sexy you look touching yourself, you may be confident enough to let your very lucky man look on while you do it. Just don't forget to peel him off the ceiling when you're done. Frisky Foreign Facts 52% of Israeli Cosmo readers watch porn. --Israeli Cosmo 23% of Spaniards have had sex with two people at the same time. --Euro RSCG Love and Lust 2002 Survey 94% of Italians would rather have an unattractive partner who is great in bed than an attractive partner who is lousy in the sack.

Guys and Girls you will like this :) Girls on the bottom there is how to give guys great oral sex :) HOW TO GIVE GOOD ORAL SEX TO WOMEN "Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, and then put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently. Tongue-fuck her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin." Master Her Pussy The anonymous woman continues spilling the beans... "Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him. But back to your pussy eating session...There's another thing you can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, curing or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking. Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover." Setting Pleasure Free Last part from anonymous woman "When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms too? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her. The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself." To become a master of sex and oral sex techniques, you definitely need to practice often what you've just learned here. To keep increasing your knowledge on how to give great oral sex to a woman, visit this website (click here) . You are going to enjoy your sex life as much as I do, now that I know much about how women feel and how to increase their pleasure levels. HOW TO GIVE MAN ORAL SEX Serveral of you ladies have contacted me regarding how to give the best blowjob (bj's) to your man. In stead of answering each and every question I decided it would be wise to lump them into one and write and article. Enjoy. First I will say this; I know there are a lot of women out there who don't like giving or receiving oral sex. I understand that you may think that it is dirty or like in an Asian country some women have stopped as they think it is an evil sin. Why am I writing about giving your man a blowjob in this article, simple, because it is a fact that some men prefer a great blowjob over intercourse? Therefore, I believe that if you please your man like he tries to please you, then to please him, will please you too. When giving a blowjob, giving head or going down on your man, did you know that this form of sexual gratification can be an extreme turn-on for a woman as well? Hot Blow Job! How do you give the perfect blowjob? Giving you man the perfect blowjob takes times to learn and master, it doesn't happen the first time or overnight. I've been with my boyfriend now for several years and it has taken me that long to perfect his likes, dislikes and how to drive him crazy. I get compliments from him all the time. Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of for both parties so try it before you say you don't like it. Once again like with the guy you both need to be comfortable with it. If you feel that it is not a clean "tool" then ask him to wash it or better yet take a shower together. Once in the shower, ladies take it in your hands, grab the soap, lather it up and wash it, play with it, see how it responds to your touch. Once is nice and clean, kneel down in front of him and flick your tongue over the tip. Then gently close your mouth around it and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist mouth. I guarantee that just by doing this you will move way up on his priority list. Take control and enjoy it as much as your partner!! If you are being sensual and your partner tries to thrust causing you to deep throat and gag when you are not ready, grab him gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin but tight enough to stop him… Do not break the skin. if you do all the romantic desires will have gone!!!!! Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and forwards as you suck. You can do both at the same time. Trust me on this one… Now if you feel comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off your knees and head to somewhere a bit more comfortable, like the bed, continue what you were already doing but in a different position. Ok first if you have lube - like KY jelly handy, grab that, before getting onto the bed, flavored is great….my personal favorite is cherry. Have your guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees, squeeze a little bit of the lube, covering both hands… Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of the head. Remember that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to that particular word. The penis and the balls are very sensitive and any kind of roughness will cause pain. The idea here is pleasure not pain. Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around the head, Pay particular attention to the Frenulum (the underside of the penis), as it's the most sensitive part of the glans (the head of the penis). Tease him and please him at the same time, you can do it! Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in as much as you can - to deep throat is to breathe out as you are taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable urges you may get. I won't go into detail, but I am sure you know what I am talking about. As you suck him deep into your mouth and with your hand around the lowest part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth rides his hot swollen penis. As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free, gently massage your partner's testicles. Squeeze them, hold them, run your finger nails over them - there's that word again "gently", and at the same time sensually play with them. Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow his cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to the next… Your partner's cock is throbbing with anticipation as your tongue works it's magic, you taste his pre-cum it's salty but nice, you wrap your hand firmly but not too tight around his cock, with your mouth sucking him deep, keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster… Keep stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he explodes sending his hot creamy cum down your throat… Look at him and lick your lips to show how much you enjoyed sucking his rod dry…I've let my boyfriend come in my mouth several times, well practically every time but have never managed to work up the courage to swallow his load. For the ladies who don't like the taste, when you feel your partner's cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to thrust against, you, take your mouth of his penis and with your hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you. As he ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do… Taking control of your partner's orgasm ultimately is a turn-on; learn how to give that special blowjob as it can ultimately be a satisfying experience for all involved. You can read many of my existing articles Plus many more sexually charged articles on a partner website. Please visit SEX ADVICE FOR MEN .