Hello, tall and seductive 45yo, happily married, dominant, mellow and easy-going, wanting a sex toy/beta sub, perhaps an occasional playmate for the wife as well. She knows and approves. I'm honest and direct, at the least you'd get a kick out of knowing me. I am very sensually/sexually minded, and have been told I'm a wonderful lover. I'm very easy to talk to and love to please....I like painting and drawing, and am trying to learn guitar. Open-minded and a nice devil lol. Have had submissives in the D/s lifestyle, with me it's always by agreement, I have a wide range of skills, about 6 years experience with it thus far. Not something that I would insist on being present in a relationship,my wife is also my sub/slave, I'm quite capable in that regard and it has a lot to do with trust. We would accept a beta sub for me, and a sub for her, by my guidance. I love picnics and museums, animals, and had three children with my first wife, and two with the second(I got fixed after the first set of twins lol. Well, if you've actually read this far, then I appreciate it, if interested then feel free to contact me. No cyber or phone sex lol. Honest discussion. And don't let my being so openly sexual scare ya, why should I lie lol. So.... do feel free to chat with me, I'm harmless ha ha, Patrick