Im a woman who knows what she wants out of life and am working hard to get it. Looking for friendship with a man who knows how to treat a woman and be a friend BEFORE he becomes a lover. I am a woman who will not tolerate lies, so if you want to be friends its simple just be honest! Im not here to break up anybody's relationship so if u have a girlfriend be honest about it. I love to sing, write poetry, writing erotica and my own songs. I am the mother of three teenagers and am a full-time student. I want a lot out of life and I am working for it. I am looking for a partner. Also you should know that I am spoiled. I like having things my way but I also am a spoiler. Just ask my kids!!! Lol. Dont get it twisted I am NOT a golddigger bc I can spoil myself it would just be nice to have someone else do the spoiling. I love to have fun!!! I love a man who can make me laugh!! I love tall guys and sexy eyes. I am a woman with a new attitude because I have lost a total of 167lbs since June 2011. I am feeling sexier than ever!!! If you dont like the way I look thats cool and your opinion but I feel beautiful. Hope we can have some fun!!! Talk to you soon!!!