i had my stroke in dec. of 08 my wife of 10yrs left me march of 09 and took the kids and wouldnt let me see or talk to them then i lost my truck and my house and ended up on the streets till july of 09 when i got a place to live then she found out i had a place and gave me my two boys and my stepdaughter so she can do all the partying she wanted and wanted a divoce but wanted me to pay for it so i findly got the money and divorced her oct 2010 but since i had to pay i took full custudy of the boys and she wasn't ordered to pay child support cuz that's the only way she would sign the papers and has not helped with them at all and after taking care of her daughter for almost 2yrs i told her she need to spend time with har daughter and said she had a party and the bar was more important and i told her she was stupid so she took her daughter and gave her to her bouther and now me and my two boys moved to AZ with my mom to help her live and us cuz i need the heat not to be in pain and my boys was hating life cuz in 3yrs there mom only made time for them when i took them to see her and she only lived 10 miles away and now they are 2300 miles away and have a differant reason why she's not seeing them but the only time she call's them is to tell them what's wrong with her and cant even ask how they are my youngest has total gave up and wont talk to her at all so its all put on my oldest to talk to her and he is totaly sick of life so everything i do is to try to make them happy and put them first cuz nobody else does...so im alive and can take care of myself and my boys so its all good