In the past couple of months ive learned that people you thought would always be there never will be and the people you think that would rather not be there will be.ive learned that if you try to avoid risks everything becomes a risk and your life becomes guarded.I have learned that even if only for a couple of seconds you can love a person for who they are and even be able to turn thier lives around or at least comfort them. my status" How does a person jump into life and go unchanged? the answer is they dont.We as people tend to see the others side and try to help and in tiny and some huge ways change who we are as people.