Imagine that you are a home buyer. You are in the market for your perfect house that fits your budget. You know what you want and you know what you need and you know what you can afford. You start searching the ads and you find a house that appears to have it all. The advertisement says all that you want to hear. You make an appointment to go see the house with the real estate agent. You're all excited and the day finally comes and you pull into the driveway. The house is completely run down and looks to be a shambles. Do you go in or walk away? THINK ABOUT IT. Now how does this apply to your life. First clue....It's not about houses. :)