hey everyone,
if you hadn't noticed, there's now a link on your
profile settings page (next to the 'Bartab Content' option) to configure some more advanced filters for the mini-bartab box that's at the top of every page. you can turn on or off every alert by type.... ie: if you only want to see when people rate you an 11 and leave you a comment, you can see that. or if you only care when your friends post comments on other peoples' mumms, you can see just that.
for the first few days it was vip only, but it's now usable by everyone. let me know if you have any problems... cheers!
edit: woops, i forgot to do a rollout to the site to turn it on for everyone.. it's going out now, and will be there in about 5-10 minutes. :-)
-mike