i am so lost and just do not understand why some peopele have to be in controll of every thing and every one around them..at what point in ur life do you break away and live ur life the way you want to live it??at what point do you stop letting another person controll ur happiness??at what point do you steo up and just say enough is enough and if this continues i will have to let you go???others can only controll you if you give them the ability to do so....think about that and ask ur self how long are you willing to live in fear and miss out on happiness because of some one elses problems....wil