Johnnydevil's blog: "Real Fu-Kin Life."

There seems to be some stuff going on as always, regarding everyone's favorite Fubar angle..."drama." Ahh yes. That dreaded word that no one is ever about, always claims to "not have," yet seems to perpetuate en masse around here. This is as time honored a tradition as you can possibly have on a social networking website. Let's get started on some basic things you need to know about "drama..."

1. If you can't prove it - shut up.

It really is that simple people. If, god forbid, I went around blogging about "what I have heard" about so many, many people from higher levels, to con artists, reds, etc...I would be here all damn day fending off and dealing with bullshit. This is not how we operate. At least not me anyways. If someone comes out and says for example that "so and so says she never cam whores or takes nude pictures" and then low and behold a pile of their nudes show up uploaded to someone's page, you grab the pictures and call them out or save them for a rainy day. If someone is conning you, or is flagrantly lying, you screenshot that and save it for future reference. If you have proof of said things above and much much more, then you make damn sure your stories are straight and then you take appropriate actions. Everyone's view on "appropriate actions" is different. And that's where individuality and creativity come in. Of course, you have to know who and what you are effecting, in addition to the "Fubar" rules regarding call outs. If you have any questions regarding this, feel free to contact me because I've been through just about everything regarding that. No lie. So the bottom line is this - put up or shut up. Because if you speak ill around here with no proof of it, people are going to start looking at you like you are - a drama starting blow bag.

2. If you post your opinion about anything - say it's "your opinion."

This is pretty much common sense, but then again around here, that can't even be taken for granted. Once again, I could go on all day with my thoughts and opinions of people, however, that really isn't for public posting or public consumption. If you feel strongly about issues such as bling beggars, cam whores, players and users, best be advised to either keep it in your shoutbox with someone you trust or keep it to yourself until you can prove it (see above.) or clearly state "this is your opinion." I mean, if someone writes this essay blog about how much they hate sluts, then get busted paying credits to see nsfw, or even funnier selling your own junk for credits - you start to make no sense and your credibility hits the toilet. Personally, I don't care if girls sell themselves for money or credits. It's their thing. Think of it like this - there's two girls. One is a known and admitted cam girl for whatever. The second one sings the praises of the virtuous yet low and behold she's sexting or camming for whatever outside of the scope of a relationship and then gets busted. What's worse? To me, number two is. But then again, that's just "my opinion." Think about it before you post it. By saying it's your opinion, it leaves your readers and viewers the chance to make their own, informed decisions about this and that and more importantly - you.

3. Not Everything Is a Scandal.

It really isn't. Before you go wild either online or on Fubar, dig a little deeper. I mean, if one of the "cool kids" you see running and famping and yada yada all the time does something outrageous, it might be worth investigating. Otherwise, "he said she said" will make you look stupid unless you can back it up. To me, true scandals are extreme players, cons (like Gem Girl), cheaters, 1,000 account makers, convicted sex offenders and of course proven fakes and the like. These fall under the clause of "menace to the site." These are the things that, in my opinion, need to be addressed. "My fuspouse is camming with so and so while I'm asleep" is not a scandal. To you, maybe it is. But then thats when you have to look at who and what you are dealing with online and make your own choices. Rumor is not gospel. And being a human being online in 2012 with all of its' perils and pitfalls, are all not scandals. That same person that does this, would fuck someone they met in a bar while you were on vacation in real life. Think about it.

4. When you let your emotions get the best of you online...

...you usually make mistakes. Whether it be a bad choice, or saying the wrong thing, etc etc. Before you blow a gasket about something online (silly, really) take a step back for a minute or two, put down your prescription pain meds, that cheap beer you drink or meth and evaluate what you are doing. It might give you a clearer perspective of things overall and then you can decide if it's worth it or not.

5. The Bottom Line Is...

It is your credibility and quality of online experience at stake. Once again, I cannot stress the fact enough that you need to prove what you post and back up what you say, especially around here. I've been at this about six years now and can tell you with some great clarity that sometimes the best things you do are the ones you don't do at all. And when it's time to hit the red button on someone or something, you know when that time is right. This isn't every day, every week. You know when this time is right. Don't fall for catty jealous females or super stupid money- will-buy-me-the-pretty-girl dudes pushing you into doing something you're not sure of because you want to impress someone. All you are doing is helping them forward their own agenda and making yourself look like a clown or a meat puppet. If anyone has any questions about timing, or how to call someone out correctly, feel free to ask and I will gladly tell you if you have enough...

...so kids before you lose it over an innuendo picture or blog post, think about it, think about the source and what the truth in reality is. People talk about me and I really don't care. I've done some pretty crazy things apparently. But since I know reality, it doesn't phase me personally. And when someone's spreading lies about you and you know they aren't true. Two things to do. One, tell them to prove it and two, take the higher ground. It's not worth the stress and aggrivation it will cause you believe me. And there may just be fire where there is smoke sometimes, but until that day comes when you see it, how do you plan on addressing it? The truth always comes out in the end one way or the other, and that should really be all that matters...right?

Peace.