What is “real”. What makes a person “real”?
Is it money? If he/she has a lot of money does that make them “real”?
Is it their street smarts that makes them “real”?
Is it their swagger?
What is it REALLY that makes someone “real”?
Every day, on here especially, people are looking for someone “real” but really, do you even have a definition for what is “real”? It is ridiculous to me, that those same folk who are looking for someone “real” continuously surrounds themselves with the type of people that they would define as “fake” or whatever the choice word is.
If you make a decision to find someone “real”, then why not make the decision to change up your whole entourage? Start from the ground up. Because if you do not change what’s around you… then what good is saying you’ve changed what’s in you?
People don’t know what “real” really is. They just think they do(in my opinion).
A “Real” person, to me, is the following.
Someone who will be there for you, no matter what. Who will drop whatever it is they are doing if you truly need them for any circumstance. Someone who does for you, without expectation out of anything in return. Someone honest. Someone Loyal. Someone upfront.
This is just basics on human decency that the majority of people Do not seem to have these days. Some of their mothers need to, or should have, spanked them when they were growing up instead of running around like the world owes them for their just being alive. No. It doesn’t, won’t and shouldn’t work like that.
Get Real.