Do you ever get nervous about your relationship
falling apart because the man who used to be so
wild about you isn't as excited about you as he
used to be?
If this is happening to you... don't wait until
it's too late and your man has made up his mind
that he "just doesn't feel it for you anymore."
Help the man in your life remember and experience
the amazing physical and EMOTIONAL CONNECTION
that's possible between you, but you've lost sight
of.
It's not too late to "rekindle" that spark and
keep your relationship going strong.
Learn how to quickly bring that intense "gut-level"
ATTRACTION back into your relationship right here:
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I'd love to share a couple of secrets with
you about how attraction works for a man, and
how to use these secrets to have the man in
your life begging you for more time together.
Let me start by asking you...
Do you know what it is you can do that will
make a man feel CRAZY about you, to where he can't
stop thinking about you and wanting to be with you?
And... do you also know what it is that can
make a man suddenly STOP "feeling it" for you-
even when things have been going great in your
relationship?
If you're not 100% clear on how all this work
with men, dating, and relationships... then I'm
going to help you here.
If you're afraid that your relationship has
lost that "spark" and there's no way to get it
back - here's the first thing you have to do:
STOP WORRYING.
For too many women, worrying and analyzing
what's going on and what to do becomes the very
thing that gets in the way of sharing more
love and fulfillment with the man in their life.
Don't let your worries about why your
relationship isn't working keep it from working.
So take a deep breath and let's focus on doing
WHAT WORKS - and put aside what isn't working for
the moment.
I'm about to tell you what causes men to feel
these two different ways about a woman (attracted
or repelled).
And I'm going to show you how to make sure
you're the woman a man can't wait to spend more
time with... instead of ending up the woman a man
is trying to get "free" of.
The difference of what makes you one woman or
the other to a man is smaller than you think.
For a lightning fast understanding of how a
man sees a woman and what makes him DEEPLY
ATTRACTED to you for more than just a "casual
relationship"... you need to check this:
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Now back to it.
So what does make a man FEEL that magic thing
called ATTRACTION for you?
And what keeps this going strong in a
relationship with a man?
Here are a few secrets you should know...
Attraction Secret: Men Crave "Uncertainty"
One of the best things you can do to create
a stable and lasting relationship is to get to
a place of comfort and understanding with a man
where you know a lot about how one another
thinks, feels, and acts.
You can think of this process in general
as "getting to know someone."
When we get to know our partner really well,
it's easy for us to know and predict how they'll
think, feel and react in most situations.
We even start to anticipate things about our
partners in relationships-
"Oh, my boyfriend would hate that."
This kind of "knowing" makes it easy and
comfortable for us to be close and loving, without
stepping on each others toes.
But as much as having this kind of "certainty"
helps our relationship... when that's all there
is, it becomes a danger. Here's how...
When a man knows exactly how a woman is going
to act around him and what their relationship is
going to consist of doing... it takes on a
PREDICTABLE nature.
And, if you haven't learned yet, having a
highly PREDICTABLE relationship in all aspects
is one of the surest ways to KILL ATTRACTION.
Long story short - if you have too much
certainty and predictability in your relationship,
and you don't do things that surprise a man,
catch him off guard, and you fall into a pattern
of the same old thing (regardless of whether your
pattern is affectionate and loving)...
Then odds are you're going to find that magic
"spark" and excitement will feel like it's fading.
And when this fades in less committed and newer
relationships... often times men believe it means
that the spark is GONE FOREVER and it's time for
the relationship to end.
Don't make it easy for a man to make this
common mistake.
When, if he was simply experiencing a few
simple things with you that weren't so PREDICTABLE,
he'd stay EMOTIONALLY ENGAGED in your relationship.
Here's a quick and easy way to think about
the danger of "Predictability" with a man...
You might think of lots of PREDICTABLE
patterns of behavior that go on as "routines".
Routines can make life seem easy... but if
you want to keep any kind of excitement or
passion alive... then your routines are made to
be broken in your relationship.
Here are a few of the most common "routines"
and patterns in "working" relationships:
-Watching TV at night when you're tired and
tuning each other out
-Having the same old conversations about "problems" in
your relationships that go nowhere
-Eating at the same restaurants again and again
-Hanging out with the same small group of friends,
or not hanging out with many of your friends at all
-Not doing much of anything apart other than work
-Spending "quality time" together that's really
only two people too exhausted to do anything else
Seen anyone of these before?
Guilty of any yourself?
Here's the point...
The easiest way to create a "spark" of
excitement and attraction inside a man is to
break the patterns or routines you have with
him and do something new and totally UNPREDICTABLE.
Break your routines, and by definition what
happens will be new and exciting.
For example, if you like to have a quiet
evening home most weeknights with your boyfriend
and you like to talk to him and be close and
cuddle... make sure you throw in a night here
and there where you completely change it up.
Try surprising him with something sexy as
soon as he walks in the door. Light some candles,
put on great music, wear something he'd love to
see you in... and as soon as he walks in the door
simply grab him, throw him down and give him a
passionate kiss.
If he tries talking to you, ignore him and
just keep looking at him and connecting with
him through touch and get him out of his head
and into his body and the experience with you.
I promise he'll know that the "spark" is
still there.
Of course, for lots of women, when they're
not feeling that "spark" in their relationship...
this is the last thing they might feel like doing.
Instead, what they feel like doing is trying
to connect and communicate with their guy through
WORDS, and talk about the relationships.
BORING. And certainly doesn't create any
ATTRACTION.
To a man, this is VERY PREDICTABLE, and does
little or nothing to get him engaged and
interested in connecting with you and helping
to create that "spark" in your relationship
himself.
Of course, talking to a man is important...
and there are women who know how to make a man
FEEL ATTRACTION and EXCITEMENT with them at the
same time they talk to a man and strengthen their
relationship.
To learn how to make a man feel so deeply
attracted to you that he's creating these kinds
of magical UNPREDICTABLE MOMENTS for you and
your relationship as he becomes the one to keep
driving your relationship forward, everything you
need is inside my "Natural & Lasting Attraction"
program.
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deep and lasting level right here:
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Here's something else fascinating about men
you need to know.
Especially if you're single or struggling
in a relationship that doesn't seem to be
growing...
Have you ever had a guy come on strong at
first, but then once he had your attention,
he started acting distant and calling less?
Annoying, right!?
Why do men do this?
When this has happened to you, what did you
tell yourself was really going in the guys mind?
If you're like lots of women I know, then
you wondered why he was acting this way with
you, when the connection you had was so
incredible... and you told yourself some version
of what I call the "He's Scared" Story.
You know the "He's Scared" Story. It's the
universal story that almost all women understand
about how men can be afraid of real intimacy
and love... and how a man will leave a great
woman once he gets close to you because he is
AVOIDING a real relationship of "substance".
This story or "myth" about men exists for
a reason of course- because there are lots of
men who freak out when things get more "serious"
in relationships.
But here's the point...
This story can't help you. In fact, knowing
this story and carrying it around in your mind
actually hurts you more than it helps.
Why?
In short, because, like most women, this
story will lead you to FALSELY BELIEVE that
the reason the man in your life gets "scared off"
is because he can't handle HOW WELL your
relationship is WORKING.
Which 95% just isn't true for HIM.
A man won't want to leave a great relationship
that he feels wonderful in and he feels is
"working" for him.
Although the "He's Scared" story/myth would
have you believe otherwise.
In lots of cases, a man is "scared" because
his feelings and experiences are telling him
that the relationship he's in with you is NOT
WORKING.
And his feelings and emotions are telling
him that you aren't the right woman for him...
no matter how hard you try and make things better.
And here's where things usually go to from
bad to worse for most women-
Because of a man pulling away and you seeing
that he's scared... you try harder to help the
relationship stay together and make things work.
But the harder you try, the more he ends up
feeling UNATTRACTED to you, and you strengthen
his belief that you're the wrong woman for him
because it's takes so much "work" just to be
together.
Don't fall into this common trap that way
too many women fall into.
So let me ask you a direct question-
Have you ever had your relationship turned
upside down because you saw that a man got
"freaked out" and scared off?
If so, then I want you to really think
about it...
What's more likely here:
That a man was SCARED of the great relationship
that was obviously there and he was loving and
feeling great about - but for some reason beyond
even his knowing he had to RUN FROM IT?
Or...
Is it more likely that there was something
else going on?
Something else that had to do with the fact
that he was feeling like you WEREN'T the right
woman for him at the time... and he wanted to get
away from what he felt wasn't working?
Take a minute and think about which is more
likely?
If you're single, or you're in a newer
relationship where you aren't sure why the man
seems to be getting more DISTANT and acting less
interested... and you don't know for sure what
it takes to keep a man's interest and attention
for a great lasting relationship...
Then it's time you learned about this once
and for all and put all the worry and uncertainty
behind you.
It's time you stopped hoping that each man was
different than all the men you've dated in the
past where things didn't work... and you learned
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I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in
Life and Love.
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
