Getting A Woman To Chase YOU
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***SUCCESS STORY***
Hello David,
Just wanted to let you know of a little twist of
fate I experienced. After reading your techniques,
I made a decision to try them out on a good female
friend of mine. Her and I used to be a couple, but
four years into it things got sour and the
relationship ended. I was absolutely crushed and
felt emotionally numb. A few months went by and I
decided to get over the possibility of us getting
back together. I had pondered possible reasons as
to why our relationship ended. It had seemed as
if she just one day awoke and saw me as a friend
instead of a mate... but I came to the realization
that I had become a wussy and just stumbled into
that self defeating clinginess. We remained
friends, but I was obviously still attracted to
her. Well, I purchased your book and decided to
move on with my life and let her go forever.
Ironically, after some intense practice, I ran
into her at the mall and we started talking. It
had been a while and I had moved on, so I
(naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I
busted her balls in every way possible. She
laughed so hard and got really excited. Well, the
next month she called me about 10 times to try to
set up a time to meet. Finally, I visited her
house for old times sake, applied cocky funny
(which was downright second nature at this point),
and she started crawling all over me! I wasn't
even pursuing her. Four years of me being a wussy
and your techniques pulled me out of it. Very
powerful stuff! Just emailed to let everyone know
that this stuff works. It also helps if you
actually get a grip of your life and don't let
past loves drag you down. Get over it and move
on...it will only make you more attractive! Take
care and thanks.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Congratulations. One thing that really stood
out for me in your letter was:
"It had been a while and I had moved on, so I
(naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I
busted her balls in every way possible. She
laughed so hard and got really excited. Well, the
next month she called me about 10 times to try to
set up a time to meet."
Women have a very specialized and highly
advanced "Wuss Detection System". One of the clues
that they use in Wuss-Detection is when a guy is
overly clingy or shows TOO MUCH interest.
I know that this doesn't make a whole bunch of
LOGICAL sense, but then again, almost NOTHING
makes logical sense when it comes to ATTRACTION.
Keep up the good work, and I hope you're able
to put your relationship back together... sounds
like it was a great thing.
Just remember - DON'T BE A WUSSY anymore!
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I purchased your book and received most of your e-
mails. Your book is an excellent guide for success
with women. After reading your book I began to
see things more clearly regarding women and
dating.
I am currently dating four women at the same time.
They are all pretty hot and very into me. I use
your Cocky and Funny approach with a touch of
sarcasm. I have bedded these girls down within
one or two dates. Their ages range from 19 to 26
and sex is a daily thing.
However, I grow tired of scheduling all these
women. What should I do? I don't want to go
without sex like I use to before reading your
book.
Yours Truly,
G.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Awwww. You POOR, POOR DEAR.
You're dating four hot women, ages 19-26, and
you're having sex daily.
Yeah, I can sure see how all that scheduling
would get you down.... sounds like a TOTAL BUMMER.
Hey, I have an idea...
Maybe you should rent a 5 bedroom house and
then rent out four of the rooms to your dates. You
could mark up the rents so you could cover the
entire cost... FREE RENT FOR YOU!
But wait... that's not even the good part.
You could run down to Office Depot and get one
of those big "white boards", create a huge monthly
calendar and put it up in the kitchen. This way,
all of your dates could SCHEDULE THEMSELVES.
It would be great. No more HARD SCHEDULING WORK
for you! You could just let them work it all out
amongst themselves.
Now THAT'S thinking. I should send you a bill.
OK, look man... give me a break!
You want to have a lifestyle that almost NO men
have, but you don't like all the tough "scheduling
work".
Either hirer an assistant, or get over it.
***QUESTION***
Sup Dave,
Man you got some skillz with the ladies.
I'm learning so much from you, now friends are
asking me for 'advice', that's wild. Well for the
past couple of weeks i just decided to give the
cocky and funny thing a try, to great reviews from
the ladies. I was getting tired of hearing "you
are such a nice kid." My problem is trying to
figure out if i went too far with joking with this
girl. in her book i wrote " what's up girl, i
can't lie, you look good, almost as good as me
(haha). Give me a call so we can chill, go to the
movies, makeout...whatever. It was tight being in
classes w/ you, your energy and great smile can
really light up any situation. Have a tight
summer. peace"
It seems like in the past weeks she has
started to like me. The thing is, she is one of
the most liked girls at our school, i always
played it coo around her, jus being friends (oh
ya, i got the email). It's not like i'm a bad
looking guy either so... "was it the right thing
for me to right this?" yeah, and if i messed up
and she is mad at me or something what should i do
to fix the situation w/out sounding like a 6'3
tall wussy? "oh yeah, and "how do i kno when these
girls like me or not, they throw out mixed
signals" one day they're all over a brotha, next
day they're not talking to me...weird. Anywayz, if
you can understand my conumdrum and give me some
advice, i would be greatly apreciative. Peace,
your friendly neighborhood black guy
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Let me drop the knowledge...
First of all, get used to attractive women
sending you mixed signals. It's part of life.
One of the reasons why a woman will be "all
over you one day, but cold the next" is because
during the time she was "all over you", YOU ACTED
LIKE A WUSS.
A lot of guys don't get this.
They get all upset because a girl was friendly
one day, but totally acted different the next.
What often happens is something like this:
1) You do the right things, and make her feel
ATTRACTION.
2) She starts acting affectionate. Maybe you make
out.
3) You start saying, "Wow, I really like you" etc.
and act all smitten with her to her face too early
on instead of just leaning back, enjoying
yourself, and playing it cool.
4) She CHANGES HER MIND and sees you in a
different light because you turned into a WUSS
right before her very eyes.
You feel me?
Better way: Keep doing what you know works.
Keep leaning back, being unpredictable, playing
hard to get, etc. And don't start acting smitten
too early on!
***COMMENT***
hey dave
just to let you know that your stuff is genius...
Ive never had so much success before. I used to
do EXACTLY what not to do, in fact i didnt do
anything right. You see I was the "Nice Guy" I
kissed girls asses to make them like me, and i
could never figure out why they acted ignorant and
ignored me. Now thanks to you man i figured out
what I did wrong. I now have confidence and i am
willing to talk to chicks i never would before.
Just wanted to thank you for all you have done for
us, i speak for everyone when I say that you are
the man. I hope that every man knows this stuff,
but if not more women for us right?
-J
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for your email.
I know, I know... it's soooo easy to do the
wrong things with women and NOT EVEN REALIZE THAT
YOU'RE DOING THEM.
Unless you get clued-in about how this game
works, it's very difficult to figure this stuff
out by "trial and error".
Keep up the great work.
***QUESTION***
Dear Dave,
I downloaded your book and all I can say is WOW! I
was blind and now I see. I've always been known as
a "nice" guy and looking back I can see how much
of a wuss I really was. Here's the story. Some
friends of mine and I go on a camping trip every
year. This year one guy brought a surprisingly
attractive 20-something with him.(I'm 36). Later
that night she and I were the last ones sitting
around the fire after everyone else had crashed.
We had a few drinks and I found out that she and
my friend were not a couple. Then she came out and
said that she knew that I was attracted to her but
that I "wasn't her type". Before your book I would
have become embarrassed and tucked my tail between
my legs and fled. Instead I turned it around on
her and started busting her balls using C&F. We
ended up talking until the sun came up and when it
came time for her and my friend to leave she asked
me if I had a pen. She gave me her phone #(I never
even asked for it) and asked me for mine. That
never would have happened in my previous life!
Everyone out there: Get this book! Thanks Dave!
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ah, isn't it exciting when you do something
that you NEVER would have done in the past... and
it WORKS!?
Of course, you're just getting started...
you're going to take things to a whole new level,
I'm sure.
Just make sure that you don't start calling
this girl every 20 minutes, and that you give her
space to miss you and think about you.
Keep it up.
***QUESTION***
Hey,
I have been a subscriber of your newsletter
for a while now. I have pretty much perfected your
techniques and have had tremendous success with
them. One thing I recently realized is that after
you have them hooked you can keep them on the line
even more by using strange timing for telephone
calls etc. What I mean by this is that I have
found it beneficial to return their calls at weird
hours when you wouldn't expect them to be home or
awake if they are so that you leave a message.
Then when they call about half the time all I do
is pick up the phone and say "can't talk sorry
bye," hang up, and go back to watching
sportscenter. The girls who are calling obviously
want to see more of you, so being hard to reach
makes the game all the livelier. If you mix being
hard to reach with the occasional phone call it
seems like a shortcut to taking it to a more
physical level because they aren't sure when they
will see you next. I was wondering if you have
used this and if you think it is a good idea or if
there is some unforeseen way this could backfire?
Thanks.
Z
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You horrible man!
You actually tell women that you're BUSY, and
hang up so you can go back to watching
SPORTSCENTER?
You're killing me over here.
I can't believe it, I think you're one of about
five men alive that have gotten to the point where
you don't need to stop everything just for a
little attention from a woman!
Hell, I'm starting to feel attracted to you.
Easy, boy.
You are doing EXACTLY the right things. Keep it
up.
Being unpredictable, hard to reach, and
mysterious is MAGIC when it comes to creating
ATTRACTION.
Of course, no technique is perfect, and if you
do these things long enough you will have
something come up as a result. But overall, this
is a WINNING combination.
If and when you do have a problem or setback,
don't worry about it. These things happen. You'll
have so much success that it won't matter.
As a side note, I want to mention a quick
little something...
I think that there's a line between doing
things that make women feel attracted to you so
you can enjoy a more interesting romantic life and
actually giving women what they want...
And using the ideas you're learning purely to
manipulate women into doing things.
Most women would really prefer if guys would do
this stuff and be more interesting, but there's a
danger of using this information, and making
people into toys.
I honestly believe that you can live whatever
lifestyle you want... all the way from dating
several women at a time, to being married for
years... and still do it with integrity and
honesty.
Do the right thing, and be a good guy.
***QUESTION***
David,
Hey there! Thanks for the tips/advice so far. I
have an interesting story about an amazing girl i
met online...we started chatting and we hit it off
so well that we chatted for many hours the first
day and by the end of the second day she wanted me
to call her and i did and then by the end of the
week she wanted to meet me and she came over to my
house and well we kinda got straight into it
(everything but sex)...anyways the next day i
called her and we were still talking pretty hot
and heavy etc...and we kept this up for a couple
of days and we were supposed to meet again (to go
to a movie) but then she backed out and said she
wanted to slow it down...i kinda figured this was
the end of it and i was feelign pretty s***ty
(she's a stipper for god's sake!) and i was kinda
confused and then she emails me the next day...i
hold off responding for a sec cause i'm confused
and then she sends me another email late at night
telling me to call her so i did and she tells me
how she wants to "cuddle" etc... and i'm kinda
acting a little distant maybe cause i'm confused
about what the hell she wants and then all of a
sudden she turns on me like that and doesn't want
anything to do with me whatsoever... and now she
won't respond to my emails or calls...what the
hell can i do to get her again cause i totally
want to party with her!
Thanks man... help me!
want more of her
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, your problem is simple.
YOU SPENT TOO MUCH TIME TALKING TO HER IN THE
BEGINNING.
As a rule of thumb, when you first meet a girl,
DON'T talk to her more than once or twice a week,
and don't SEE her more than once or twice a week.
If you're chatting online, don't chat more than
a couple of times a week.
And DON'T talk for hours and hours and hours in
ANY of these situations!
Why not?
Because when you talk for hours, you start
talking about all kinds of WUSSY things.
Do yourself a favor next time...
After a woman comes over to your house and gets
physical with you, LEAN BACK.
Don't call the next day and talk hot and heavy.
Give it some time and space.
Here's one of my favorite quotes:
"Give her the gift of missing you."
I love that quote.
I wrote it.
OK, I think you get the point. Stop acting like
a needy WUSS BOY, and start leaning back, being
unpredictable, and GIVE HER THE GIFT OF MISSING
YOU when you're in a similar situation in the
future.
***QUESTION***
David,
Hi i have been reading your newsletter for about
two months now and i really wish i could tell you
that i've had outstanding success with the cocky
and funny approach but im afraid i cant. You see i
just cant even picture myself seeing a gorgeous
woman somewhere and just starting some kind of
conversation with her out of no where like that. I
get really nervous around women and never know
what to say to them. And i just can't help but see
myself get rejected by her and all the different
ways she can turn me down. Any suggestions?
M. from AZ
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I have a question for you...
"What if you COULD picture yourself seeing a
gorgeous woman somewhere and just starting some
kind of conversation with her out of nowhere?"
Is the problem that you can't picture it? Or is
the problem that you won't just DO IT?
I mean, what do you think is going to happen?
Do you think that gorgeous women have magical
powers and she might turn you into a frog or
something?
Here, try this:
Next time you see a beautiful woman, walk over
and say:
"Excuse me, can I ask you a question? I'm
trying to overcome my shyness, and it's my goal to
ask five women today what it takes for them to
feel attracted to a man. Do you prefer it when
guys try to BUY your attention with gifts and
food, or do you prefer it when a guy teases you,
makes fun, makes you laugh, and keeps you guessing
about what's going to come next?"
Don't even worry about getting emails, numbers,
and dates. Just go ask that question.
As a homework assignment, go ask 100 women this
question. You'll see that women aren't so scary
after all, and you will get some really
interesting answers from them.
Now, I don't usually advise asking women for
advice on women... but in this case I'm not
telling you to ask for advice for advice's sake.
You're overcoming shyness at the same time.
After you ask the first 50, I want you to try
something new...
After you ask the question, and she answers, I
want you to say, "Because, you know, I'm really
tired of women just treating me like a piece of
meat... like some kind of sex symbol or something.
I need to understand what I can do so a woman
likes me for WHO I AM!" ...in a serious,
sarcastic, Cocky & Funny way.
Watch the responses you get. You'll have fun.
You should also do yourself a favor and get
your hands on a copy of my "Approaching Women...
And Starting Conversations" program. This is the
most advanced, complete, and intensive education
on the planet for approaching women. All the
details, plus some great video clips, are right
here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/ApproachingWomen/?cid=ZZZVHD&lid=2&ll=1
***QUESTION***
Hello David. Well, let me put it this way: I got
your book, and it made a HUGE impact on my life.
I'd like to assure anyone who doubts you that you
are not full of crap, you really know your stuff.
Anyway, I have a little problem, and since I feel
you've mastered the understanding of the minds of
women, I need your help. First of all, I've
always had a razor-sharp wit, but I didn't have
the confidence to show it to most women, and
instead felt sorry for myself that women never got
to see the real me. Now, once I was introduced to
you and learned the whole cocky routine and seen
it's effects, my confidence is sky high. I charm
women like you wouldn't believe... while I was
happy with this at first, it seems that I have
gotten TOO good with women. I know I sound
awfully full of myself, but... here's the scoop.
When I use my dazzling charm combined with
cockiness, new women that i meet CAVE IN to me and
become my WHIPPED SLAVE after a short period of
time. They lose their sassy and fun
personalities, and become obsessed slaves that
would do anything to please me. while its
sometimes flattering, overall I do not like this.
Don't get me wrong, I want them to want me, but I
DON'T want them to become my drooling little
groupies who think about me when they get up and
eat breakfast and are still thinking about me when
they get under the covers at night... it seems
like their obsessions sap their personality. What
I was wondering was whether or not you knew a
SPECIFIC BEHAVIOR or trait that i may be
amplifying that causes women to react this way...
I want to TONE DOWN whatever it is that's getting
them to drop their religion and worship me.. any
help appreciated. by the way, i am NOT EVEN
EXAGGERATING, i really do see myself as TOO sexy
and its ANNOYING.. i want women to be challenging
again! (P.S: while im not ugly, i sure as hell am
not the type of guy that girls whisper and giggle
about upon first glance... so don't attribute any
of this to my looks)
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Wow, another sad, sad story. Makes me weep.
Women chasing you around like groupies and
acting like slaves... you poor thing.
Well, I do actually know what you're talking
about.
Here's the deal...
Most women are used to being in CONTROL of men.
And when a guy like you shows up and uses his
magical powers of COCKY & FUNNY, they are taken
off guard.
You are pressing the ATTRACTION button inside
of a woman, which has an interesting side effect
when done with Cocky & Funny:
IT MAKES THE WOMAN ACT LIKE A WUSSY!
This is a tough one for most guys to buy, but
it's the absolute truth... and you know what I'm
talking about.
When a woman realizes that she's not going to
control you... and in fact, that she's feeling
ATTRACTED to you and she doesn't know how to
handle you, SHE'LL start getting nervous.
And in my experience, there are only a very FEW
exceptional women out there in the world. I think
that you just need to keep up the search. You'll
find yourself a firecracker if that's what you're
looking for.
I personally believe that it's important to
understand this stuff NOT just because you can
meet a lot of women using it...
I think that IT'S TOUGH TO FIND AN EXCEPTIONAL
WOMAN these days, and you're probably going to
have to date quite a few to find one. Knowing
these techniques will help you see through tough
exterior female personas, and start making you
realize what you actually want in a woman.
You're on the right track, stick with it.
***QUESTION***
Hello, I do agree with the Cocky Funny in theory.
However for me it is proving to be difficult in
practice. One of the biggest hurdles for me seem
to be the initial walkup. I am a very shy,
nervous, and easily embarrassed person. Often
when I see a beautiful women my heart starts to
thump and my hands sweat, and face goes red. I
have had 2 opportunities in the past few weeks
where I had women come up to me to ask me for
something, once for directions, and once for a
light. I can think of a few things after these
happened, like I could have told the girl asking
for a lighter "those things are bad for you, you
know"....The girl asking for directions was a
golden opportunity missed, I could have been more
detailed and then got her email, but instead I
just kind of froze up and gave her quick
instructions. When this happens I start to get
regrets and beat myself up for not thinking more
on my toes.
I do think that places outside of nightclubs are
good, because women don't expect it, and you catch
them off guard, but I was on the tub this morning
(subway in the USA) and saw this absolutely
stunning Brazilian, I thought perhaps I could do
the "are you single, my friend would like you" but
all the people around me made me hesitate and put
it off. If I had done it right at the beginning
instead of oogling her in disbelief I probably
could of done it.
For me at this point, just to make an attempt
would be good to give me a boost. I realize I have
become such a wuss. How do I get out of this
nervous rut which keeps me from going for the
women of my dreams.
J.P in London
>>>MY COMMENTS:
If it freaks you out too much to approach women
in public, then figure out how to meet them in
other ways.
Get online and start instant messaging women...
Go to a pottery or yoga class (if those things
interest you)...
Get a part-time job as a bartender.
Take dance lessons.
There are all kinds of great ways to meet
women...
By the way, one of the best things you can do
is get together with a friend and go out for a day
and meet 50 women. Just approach every single
woman you see and use one of the techniques you've
learned.
Then, go do it again.
You might get sick the first 5 times, depending
on how deeply-rooted your fears are, but this will
help you get over it.
Part of the problem is that you don't know what
to expect. It sounds to me like you really don't
know how women will respond to you.
By approaching a lot of women in one day,
you'll find out that women are usually pretty
nice, and you'll be able to handle whatever
happens.
Otherwise, use one of the ideas I gave you
above to makes meeting women easier. It might be a
good place to start.
***QUESTION***
Now then Dave,
I'll keep it short but first want to echo the
feelings of everyone else on this e-mail by
thanking you, your advice is seriously changing my
life. Your stuff is great for people you've just
met or that don't know you to well. However, I've
just got back in contact with a girl I used to
work with 8 months ago. We got on great and
regularly went for coffee on our lunch breaks, so
knew each other well. The only problem was that at
the time she was in a relationship, so I had to
fight the attraction I felt towards her. I have
now found out that this has recently finished and
want to make a move on her in the near future
before someone else snaps her up. I've been 'cocky
and funny' with her since we met, so that approach
may be less effective than usual. Can you please
give me some tips in how to take this further than
just friendship. RW
England
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, first I have to ask you... Does she feel
ATTRACTION for you?
When you talk to her now, does she flirt with
you?
Next time you talk to her, say:
"You know, I know you want me. It took you 8
months to finally get up the nerve to admit it,
huh?"
See what she says. Bust on her and tease her
about how you know she's been trying to figure out
how to get with you all this time, and see how she
responds.
Then, when you're alone with her, lean back,
bust on her, have fun, etc. Use the Kiss Test.
You'll figure it out soon enough.
Just make sure you don't ASK her. No, no, no.
No Wussy behavior please!
***COMMENT***
Hi David,
I have only one word for you to start with, and I
guess you know in which context to place it:
==> "Damn" <==
When I was reading your book, say about a month or
4 ago, I thought to my self, this wisenoze thinks
he knows it all, I hope he don't expect me to
believe all that sh**. Now, 3 months later, I
must confess......"Damn" E., Belgium
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thank you.
I think.
***QUESTION***
hey david
u really know what ur talkin about, this stuff
works like a charm. In one of your last news
letter you had a girls email in it, and she said
that she would fall over and open her legs for any
man who used the c&f whether he was GOOD LOOKING
or NOT. so my question is how much does looks
really matter. lets say u got pimples like crazy
and ur really fat and u have hair all over ur body
(not that i have a lot of this) can u still
attract hot girls if you've mastered the cocky and
funny stuff? thats my question. i was just
wondering. thanx. J from IN
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Let's see...
I don't think that if you're fat, have pimples
like crazy AND have hair all over your body that
Cocky & Funny will work.
Maybe if you JUST have hair all over and
pimples, or pimples and you're fat, OR EVEN hair
all over and fat.
But all three? No, I don't think so.
Cocky & Funny is really intended for the slim,
hairless, and those of clear complexion.
What the hell kind of question is this?
If you're fat, pimply, and hairy, then I think
you might want to stop eating so much Pizza Hut,
and maybe take a shower or something. Maybe some
Oxy for the zits, man.
"OK, OK, let's say that you're REALLY ugly...
like worse than the Pre-Cogs in Minority Report...
And let's say that you have a REALLY REALLY small
wiener... And let's say that you're a total dumb-
ass...
WILL COCKY & FUNNY STILL GET YOU A DATE WITH 47
PLAYBOY PLAYMATES EVERY WEEK?"
If you wish for me to make fun of you further
in front of an audience of many men, feel free to
email again.
***QUESTION***
I've got a great success story I'd like to
share... more like 20, and that's not an
exaggeration! But I also need some help. Then I'm
gonna bust on you some! Yeah you Yoda! For those
of you who haven't got this book yet, get it!
I got burned on 2 other books before I got smart
and got Double Your Dating, and Bridges is
absolutely a must read!!! For those of you who get
Dave's emails and haven't gotten the book.. and
maybe you've gotten lucky by scoring a few emails
and numbers and then choke cuz you don't know what
to do next I've got 2 words for ya....HA! HA! Get
off the fence and get his books! They work!!! As
for the guy who is 50 and wonders if it will work
for him and if he can date babes...Duhhh.
I'm 47, only average looks, and in the last 3
months have gone out with babes from 27 to 47. I
even had one gorgeous 32 year old take me to
lunch! Take Me!!!! It turned into an all day
date, with me leaving her place the next morning.
Again, you need to read Bridges!
It happened just cuz I busted on her when every
one else was drooling over her and buying her
drinks and telling her she was beautiful, blah,
blah, blah. She was singing Desperado at a karaoke
bar with about 8 cowboys drooling all over
themselves and hovering around her. She is drool
worthy, a true "10" a gorgeous face and a body
that is straight out of Playboy, she does some
modeling part time.
I was trying to figure out an approach when she
happened to turn and looked right at me, so I got
off my bar stool went over and said "Can I ask you
something?" She said "Sure, what?" I then asked
"Are you going to sing any more Eagles songs?'"
She says " I guess I can do a request" (semi-
teasing). I say "Then please don't sing any more
Eagle songs, cuz I really like them", then I
turned and walked back to my bar stool. Almost
immediately I heard "Hey a**hole!!!" I turned and
there she was, madder than hell, I started
cracking up- she started laughing too, sat down
with me...and the rest is history.
I've gone from dating an occasional 6 or 7 up to
8's and 9's regularly!!! (at least one a week). I
go to one particular bar regularly, and it has
proven to be a gold mine for me. 8's and 9's a
plenty.
So here is my problem. There are four "10's" that
have recently started coming in to the bar that I
want to meet, but I choke when it comes to
approaching. I totally freeze. I'm afraid if one
of the "10's" shoots me down, the 8's and 9's will
notice. I get numbers and / or leave with an 8 or
9, but am kicking myself on the way out for not
taking the chance with the "10's". I don't want
to blow it at this place, since I've become
popular there with most of the women. (all this in
3 months!!!!)
Is it better to stick with good looking babes, or
do you go for broke with the awesome mega babes?
(what a great problem to have right?) I've been
very lucky at this place, and have only been "shot
down" once when I first started going in. What
would you do Dave?
Now to bust on you....when are you coming to
Texas? Seminars is LA and NY? Why not Dallas? I'll
be the first one in line to buy a ticket! Happy
but Frustrated
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're doing such a great job... don't turn
into a WUSS now!
The way you busted on that woman with the
Eagles songs was great. Just keep it up.
Attractive women can smell fear. You have
absolutely NOTHING to lose by talking to the
"10s".
Here, try this. Next time you're out at the
bar, ask one of your friends to rate the "10s".
You'll find that your friends don't think that
all of them are 10s. We each have different taste,
and YOU just happen to think that these women are
10s. I can guarantee you that there are other guys
who think that they're 7s or even 5s.
Getting "shot down" is a state of mind.
I prefer to feel sorry that a woman has missed
out on an incredible experience... not that I was
"shot down".
And, if a woman is actually RUDE to you, just
laugh. Say, "Oh, sorry... you looked like you
might be an interesting person, but I was
obviously mistaken."
Feel bad for her, and move on.
In other words, keep up the great work.
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave. I am a younger one. 18 to be exact. I
am interested in this book because I have never
really been a ladies' man. I am somewhat above
average height; 6'1", and I weigh 205 lbs. I am
not a bad looking guy, but I just get really tense
around women. (You've probably heard this before)
After I say hi, I'm clueless. Can you help me
Dave? Are these techniques as good as they sound?
(Your newsletters seem quite convincing) Please
help out one of your youngest romantically
retarded friends. Thank you.
PS: If this does work as well as you say, then
expect to hear a success story from me.
P. J. K.
San Francisco, CA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I know what you're talking about. I used to be
VERY tense when it came to women.
I could be out in a public place, and a woman
could even START THE CONVERSATION WITH ME... and I
didn't know what to do.
I always felt like I needed to say something
that would "impress" a woman... or act "cool" so
she'd like me.
I went through this for most of my adult life,
actually.
I can't say that my techniques will absolutely
work for you without question. You're the one that
has to use them...
But I will say that if you get out there and
try them, I think you'll find that they work
better than anything else, and that you'll have
more success than you have now. It took me YEARS
to really figure out what women respond to, and I
really believe that ANY guy can use the material
to attract women.
Depending on just HOW shy or nervous you are,
you might need to get that handled... but once you
start working with the techniques, I think you'll
be VERY pleased with the results...
Get yourself a copy of my ADVANCED SERIES. It's
the ultimate training program for meeting women...
and it will increase your success DRAMATICALLY.
And the best part is that you DON'T HAVE TO
DECIDE NOW.
Here's my offer to you:
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I'll send it to you (in a plain box, of
course... so it's just our little secret)... to
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I'm serious.
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I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
David D.