on oct29 at 6:45pm washington time my aunt who is partly paralised fell and ended up breaking her right arm..the break was a good break but she is in a lot of pain.. as of this friday i am on my way home back to my job and my loving husband.. i feel like i am abandoning her because she needs me more now then when i came to washington to help her after her carpal tunnel surgery on the 15th of october.. but if i stay i will loose my job and my marriage..so i took most of today and got her hooked up with home health where some one will come into her home everyday and help her dress bathe cook and clean... so i feel i have done a good thing for her and this gives me time to get my life together to get things in order so that i can move to washington with my husband and be able to get a job so support us plus take care of my aunt then...so why do i feel like i am leaving her helpless for now even though she qualifies for in home help until i get back to washington???