Angel In Chains's blog: "My Dad"

push has come to shove...my dad is coming home...his wife has no power of attorney...she cannot make decisions for him...and last nite she turned and looked at me and informed my "it's all on you...this is your decision" so ...i'm in it til the end...my dad will be taken care of if i have to be there round the clock 24/7 to be sure she doesn't neglect him as she did the 3 weeks before he was admitted to the hosp

know one knows how freaking hard this is...my common sense says to deny him the right to come home...but that is where he wants to be...how can i tell him no? his mind is being eaten away by all the things he has not completed to secure the future of me and the kids..he thought he had the time and now he realizes he doesn't...and it won't let him rest...the only thing i can think of is by coming home and being able to be where he is in control of what is happening and get those things done that he wants will ease him and perhaps then he can accept what is to come...at this point he can't and all i want is for him to die at peace knowing he finished what he had to do...and everyone that was there fighting for this is now backing up not wanting to take responsibility if anything happens...they can blame me...and so be it...

I am the eldest daughter...and i will take the blame to my grave if that is what has to be...my kids have been told everything that has transpired...they have not been kept in the dark and they know why i'm doing this and for what reasons...it has nothing to do with money, inheritances, nothing!

it has to do with this is what my dads wishes are and they will be honored...i will not let him down in this...and my kids are standing behind that decision...they are all old enuf to have a say in this matter and all they care about is "bompa" they could care less about what they receive...they want their bompa happy...end of lecture, confession, what ever the hell you want to call it...

there is so much more underlying reasons why i have made this decision...but for legal safety i am making no accusations...but dammit...there will be a documented and dated "document" so to speak right here...the date is there when this is uploaded...and no one will be able to say that i am not aware of exactly what i'm doing...or that i took any of her rights away..