so i am havin issues dealin with problems im my relationship i have had for 6 yrs there is plenty of things to be worked on and i know its hard and im willing to give it a shot but he wont, he thinks its all me and to be honest im not perfect i can be a *itch somtimes but i think everyone can admit they have them momments and well i have told him over and over im unhappy and nothing changes the way he veiws me is just down right wrong he thinks i have everything i want lol and i dont even think like that to be honest material shit means nothing to me if i havent earned it and i wasn't raised rich and i tend to stick away from them ass's cause money goes to there head but back to the subject i just dont know what to do im sick of fighting but im not a quitter and i still love him alot but is it worth the mental drain that i am going through to fight for what i believe in im not aloud to do much he says hes not controllin but hes never home and im stuck with the kids all the time thats controllin to me and well i think i would be happier to find a family man and to be honest looks are not important to me anymore the inside means more and i think im lookin at all my friends on here for advice to jumpstart my decision thanks friends if u really know me u will know what to say with out offending me