Wicked Wenchie's blog: "People are people"

Well folks it looks like its time to cover that subject of "Internet Dating". Time and Time again, I have seen people hook up online, only to see about 8 or 9 months later, them back online bad mouthing those people they hooked up with.OR..The classic " OMG they are married? Ummm...Well...this is the NET, people can hide behind their profiles, They can hide the most intimate details of their real life...These are the people that never disclose any information, people that want to call you at a certain time, kinda means they have something to hide But anyway, I have met some kick ass people online, that I still talk to after 11 years of being around on the net. Never have I once, treated them as they were nothing.

   And I also like to be very clear that Its not always a bad thing meeting people on the net, You just need to keep a look out for those people out there that are just plain out fakes and frauds. Being Fu-engaged or Fu married holds no baring on the fact that some of these people are already in real life relationships. and they say " Its just a game, it doesnt mean anything" sure if thats what you are here to do is play games, Its all well and good until someone gets hurt, and I garantee someone is going to get hurt. Granted There ARE some relationships that begin online and these people really fall in love and have a good future ahead of them, but the percentage of these relationships is quite small.

Then there are the ones that hook up but they keep their options open, Never make someone a priority if you are only an option in someones life. If they can't hold you with the highest regards, then it is plain to see they need to go, I have a friend here that has been Fu married several times and each time he thinks he has someone good in his life, they turn on him and make him feel small because the people he hooked up with were married and those people hid it until it came time to step up, then they get pissy because they got caught. How can someone hide the fact they are married, when these women are vague and not surprisingly prego? Come people, Use your head for something besides a hat rack!!?

I am not a hypocrit, I met my boyfriend online, and I can tell you, it hasnt always been a picnic, he is a good man and I love him so, but I did not just jump in without finding out the real deal before I even considered him as a prime candidate to be in my life. My advise is just be careful whom you fall for, you may just be paving your way to heartache.