Why is it when us men try to do something great for the family it turns out to be the hardest thing(having to leave them behind)I hate being away from my family but if you look at the record for how long I've been home in the last 3 years you'd think I didn't like being home. Don't get me wrong I can handle it but damn why do I do this to myself and the people around me? .....I guess I'm just as confused as the next guy...O-well. let me know if you have a clue why us guys do this type of sh-- ok.....