Just Spanky's blog: "Just Rambling"

19 ways to win a girls heart.... 1. Hugs from behind. 2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other(don't make her grab yours). 3. When standing, wrap your arms around her. 4. Cuddle with her. 5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING. 6. Write little notes. 7. Compliment her Honestly. 8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible. 9. Be super sweet to her. 10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams. 11. Comfort her when she cries. 12. Wipe away her tears 13. Love her with all your heart. 14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it). 15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her). 16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her! 17. Take her for a long walk at night! 18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close 19. NEVER LIE TO HER!!!!!! Then she will think everything you ever said to her was a lie, even "I love you"

WOW....... Time goes by July 15th - my oldest daughter Torijean turned 13.. OMG.. She is getting so big too fast..She is now towering over me, yes im short. A whole whopping 5 foot. lol.. She is now about 5ft 5 and very beautiful. I remember bringing her home from the hospital just a few days old.. She was so small. Being 11 days early. Weighing 4#'s 12 oz. 17 inches long.. She was so little I couldn't believe it..She looked like a lil china doll. So small, fragile, petite. Like her mom I guess.. lol.. We got to stay in the hospital a extra day due to the heat wave we had that year. Wooohooo air conditioning!! When she was a year old she was admitted into the PICU (Pediatric Intensive Care Unit) for a hole in her right lung. That was the scariest day of my life. Seeing your child laying helplessly in a hospital bed with only a slim chance of surviving. Totally freaked me out more then anything i could have imagined. Her second day in the PICU they called the hospital priest in to read her off i guess you can say is what they do. That sucked. BLAH Seeing your child laying in a cage like bed and knowing there is nothing you can do to help her or make things better. Never in my life would i wish that on any parent. No matter what. It is the hardest thing to see and to go through. She pulled through. Now she is a bright and beautiful young woman. OMG. She is going to be driving in a few years. YIKES!!!! So not going to be on the roads then.. lol just can't believe how time has flown past. It's like you look back and can still see them learning to crawl, walk and talk. Trying to hold onto them lil moments that you never wanna see go. Always wanting them to stay lil and not grow up.. Yeah we all wish that.. Ha Ha!! I know I have with all 3 of mine.. Soon Lacie will be 9 and Hunter will be 6! Growing up way to fast.. BLAH.. That's all for now. .LOL just rambling.. Peace love and nipple tweaks as Hyper would say!!! Or as Shaggy would say !!! Peace Love And Pink Taco's :P lol