Ninja's blog: "Ask the Ninja"

Dear Ninja,

Ok first let me start by saying I'm in no way *skinny* and I Do not desire to be I'm confident and content with my apperance my question to you is

Is It wrong or does it make me shallow that I personally prefer *Thick* as opposed to *Fat* Woman...And Yes To Me There Is A Difference between FAT and THICK

Thanks IcON

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It's perfectly fine to like whatever kind of woman you want. And there is, indeed, a difference between fat and thick. Personal attractions are just that, PERSONAL. As long as you're not into animals or minors, you're ok.

Someone who is thick has muscle tone in certain areas that make the woman more curvy. But there is a huge difference between curvy and morbidly obese women calling themselves thick. Thick implies a thick layer of muscle between the skin and the bone. When flexed, these muscles appear thick, and are firm to the touch. Fat isn't. And while most women do have some fat in places we'd rather not, when your curves are defined only by your fat rolls, that's obese, and a very serious health issue that you need to address with your doctor.

On a side note. I don't care whether you're a size 0 or a size 5X, WEAR CLOTHES THAT FIT! That includes underclothes. When you try to squeeze your big ass in those jean that are 2 sizes too small, you squeeze your fat out the sides and create that "muffin top" effect. Either accept the fact you aren't a size 5, or 7, or cry into your bowl of ice cream, and then buy some new pants. You will LOOK and FEEL better in clothing that fits well. 

Also, I understand you accept yourself for what you look like, but the rest of us might not want to see it all hanging out. RESPECT THAT. Make your risque pictures accessible by those you want to see them. That way, you can save yourself the embarassment of someone else pointing out that you look like a schoolbus or skeletor.

And finally ladies, use some sense when uploading pictures. You do know that everything you upload to a PUBLIC website is then considered in the public domain and CAN be used against you in court cases. Do you really want that picture of you bent over showing your ho-ho to the world to show up on Judge Mathis? Because, baby THEY CAN!

Hope that clears it up.