1). If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away from you. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2). Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3). Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4). Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
5). Slower is better.
6). Never live your life for a man before you find out what makes you truly happy.
7). If a relationship ends because the man is not treating you as you deserve, then $#@! no you can't "be friends"!
8). Don't settle.
9). Don't stay because you think "it will get better".
10). The only person you can control in a relationship is "you".
11). Avoid men who have got a "bunch" of children by a "bunch" of different women