i HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH SOME STUFF WITH MY SON AND LATELY IT HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT THAT I DON'T EVEN WANT TO TALK WITH HIM BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IT WILL END UP IN AN ARGUMENT. HE IS 19, MARRIED WITH TWO KIDS AGES 3 AND 3 MONTHS. HE IS IN THE AIR FORCE AND STATIONED IN FLORIDA AT EGLIN AIR FORCE BASE. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN A YEAR AND FIVE MONTHS AND I HAVE NOT SEEN MY 3 YEAR OLD GRANDDAUGHTER IN ONE YEAR. THE NEWEST GRANDDAUGHTER I HAVE ONLY SEEN IN A PICTURE. MY PROBLEM IS MY SON FOR SOME REASON DOESN'T LIKE ME ANYMORE. WE WERE VERY CLOSE AS HE WAS GROWING UP TILL HE HIT 14. THERE WERE REASONS FOR HIM BEING MAD AT ME BUT SINCE THEN I MADE AMMENDS AND ALL SEEMED TO BE OK. DUE TO AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP I WASN'T AROUND MUCH AND HE CHOSE TO STAY AT MY PARENTS. I LEARNED THE HARDWAY THAT I MADE A TERRIBLE DECISION AND MESSED UP. IT HAS BEEN FOUR YEARS NOW I HAVE MET A REALLY GREAT GUY AND WE ARE PLANNING ON GETTING MARRIED. MY SON HOWEVER HAS TURNED ON ME. HE DOESN'T WANT ME IN HIS LIFE UNLESS HE SETS CONDITIONS...IT JUST GOES ON AND ON....
ANYWAY IT HAS ME THINKING ABOUT MY MOM AND OUR RELATIONSHIP. ONE THAT HAS CHANGED DRASTICALLY OVER THE PAST SEVERAL YEARS. I KNOW MY BOY WILL LOOK BACK JUST AS I AM AND WISH HE WOULD HAVE DONE THINGS DIFFERENTLY. MY MOM IS ONE OF THE BEST. SHE LOVES EVERYBODY AND I DONT KNOW A SINGLE PERSON WHO DOESN'T LIKE HER. SHE IS SWEET, DOWN-TO-EARTH, HONEST AND LOVING. SHE PUT NO CONDITIONS ON HER LOVE FOR ME AND STILL DOESN'T TODAY. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS WHAT I WANT FROM MY SON...AFTERALL MY LOVE FOR HIM IS UNCONDITIONAL. I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW SOME OPINIONS ON THIS IF YA GOT TIME TO REPLY. THANX
