I'm in dire need of some GOOD advice.
I've been having a personal relationship issue with my boyfriend. Now you have to understand how many times I've been burnt and broken in the past by the opposite sex, even the men that "appeared" to be the sweetest and most faithful. I'm very scared and I'm not having good feelings about the situation.
Ok so my significant other has this very annoying, obsessive ex girlfriend. I mean she's seriously not right in the head and she's got major issues. Anyways, she refuses to leave him alone. I confronted her online about it and she basically told me to fuck off that nomatter what I say him and her are going to talk forever and ever. So I find out tonight that her mother calls him (probably at another attempt to get him to take her demented ass back) and this REALLY pisses me off. What makes it worse is that he has not told her to basically fuck off and leave him alone. I confronted him about this once almost a month ago and he told me that he still cares for her but not in a romantic way like he does me. This still gravely concerns me. How can you still care for someone but be "in love" with me? Especially someone so malicious that would do anything to get you back and destroy your current relationship. Now he just got a new phone # on a paid monthly plan but still has his old pre-paid phone, but if I find out that her mother called him on his new # (which would have to mean that he gave it to her) then that's it. I'm at my last straw and don't know what to do. I love him, but it makes me feel like if he loved me like I loved him, there'd be no question about this fiasco and it would have been done long ago. I've even talked about this with my chick friends and they agree that if you're talking to an ex online or over the phone and are saying more to eachother than "hey how are you" there's something wrong. I've tried to hold my tongue about this long enough but I'm sick of it! Oh yea, not to mention a month ago when he yelled at me for verbally trying to put her in her place online. I don't care how nice of a guy you are, you don't let shit like this continue if you know it puts your good current relationship in jeopardy. I shouldn't have to feel like I'm in long distance competition with an 18 year old bi-polar manic depressant chick from another state. (No offense to anyone out there who is Bi-Polar.) You'd think it would even be easier for him to tell her to leave him alone considering how far away they are from eachother compared to him and I. I don't understand....arrrghhh!
Alright, done venting. Going to watch more Ghost Hunters and munch on leftovers.
