What if the secret to happiness in ALL my relationships is in the giving, not the getting?
What would happen if I never once thought about how to get what I wanted, but instead focused my energy on what OTHERS wanted and needed? And on how I could be of service.
Not in a pushy way. Not in an unwanted way. Not in a way that makes me superior, or makes them feel needy or weak, but in a way that holds that person high, and also made a difference for that person. In a way that acknowledges them and makes them feel cared for.
I find that I am happiest when I am not trying to get something from you, but rather looking at how I can honor you.