The 3 Biggest Secrets Learned About Women
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WHAT I'VE LEARNED ABOUT WOMEN...
A lot of guys ask me to "sum up" what I've
learned about women and dating.
They want a "short course" in how to attract
and meet women... and how to do it NOW.
Here are three of the most important "keys"
I've learned about women and attraction...
summarized for you.
1) Attraction isn't a "conscious" process at all, and if you
don't understand how it works, you could spend your whole
life doing the wrong things and getting bad results.
The WORST part about this idea to me is that most guys
actually COULD be successful with women... with not that
much extra effort in their lives.
But they never will. They'll just walk through life
thinking "Oh, well. Women just aren't attracted to me. I'm
just not the kind of guy that women like. Other guys have
a certain something that I lack..." etc.
And the problem isn't at all THEM, it's that they just
don't "get it". They don't get how and why women are
attracted to men. They don't realize that all the "nice"
things they're doing are only making the problem worse.
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE!
Duh.
I think about those words all the time, and I say
them all the time to guys... but every time I think about
it I get that "Ah Ha!" feeling... like I just figured out
the key to life or something.
2) Most of the things that guys are doing to "pursue" and
"seduce" women are actually working AGAINST them.
I always shake my head when I think about how I behaved
before I understood how ATTRACTION worked.
I tried SO hard to make women like me.
I called, visited, bought gifts, and basically tried
every WUSSY thing I could.
Have you ever heard someone say "I spent my life
climbing the ladder of success... only to find out it
was leaning against the wrong wall"?
It's hard to conceive and even ENTERTAIN the thought
that buying a woman a gift, telling her how you "feel"
about her after you've just met her, giving her a lot
of compliments, etc. could actually make her RUN away
from you.
But it can and does all the time.
But, if your mind is wired up like mine used to be,
then you'll just TRY HARDER instead of TRYING SOMETHING
NEW.
If what you're doing isn't working, then STOP.
And do something DIFFERENT.
To begin with, stop chasing women around, and learn
how to ATTRACT them to you. Learn how to use your
communication and Body Language to create that very
special and magical feeling called "Chemistry" or
"Sexual Tension".
Learn to flirt!
I can't give you techniques right now, but if you
want all of the BEST techniques for flirting and
creating Chemistry with your words, gestures, and
Body Language, then go read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/BodyLanguage/
3) Women read into EVERYTHING. They don't take things at
face value... they're always INTERPRETING.
When I wrote Double Your Dating, I knew that women
basically used a sort of "code" to communicate.
But over the past year or two it's become VERY
obvious to me that this idea has more significance than
I originally thought.
Men basically say what's on their mind, and they
take what others say literally.
This is why when a woman has a problem, and a man
tries to fix it, she says "You're not listening to me!".
One of the biggest realizations that I've had in this
particular area is that even the same WORD or sentence
can mean two TOTALLY different things to a man and a
woman.
For instance, if I was out a bar in my "past life",
and I liked the hot bartender that was serving my drink,
I might have thought it would be a good idea to tell
her that I thought she was attractive and then ask her
out on a date.
Well, now I might say to an attractive, sassy
bartender something like: "You're pretty fast with those
drinks. Do you do windows too? Nevermind, we'd fight all
the time, and this would never work out."
Huh?
Exactly.
I actually believe that most guys have the NATURAL
ability to communicate with attractive women in a way
that makes them feel ATTRACTION... but the problem is that
they've just never "cultivated" that natural ability...
and instead culture, their parents, language, and all
kinds of other things have hidden and stunted the
development of this talent.
Another thing I've learned is that I learn a lot by
teaching. I really have enjoyed writing all of these
newsletters, interacting with all of my subscribers,
teaching seminars in L.A. and New York, doing the
teleconference trainings... and working on all the other
good stuff that's going to come out in the next few
months.
If you're good with women, I recommend that you find
a guy who ISN'T that good, and help him.
I can almost guarantee that you will learn SO MUCH
MORE by teaching than you can by doing alone.
And it's also a very gratifying experience to help
other guys learn something that is so important to them.
Of course, the thing I'm most proud of is my Advanced
Dating Techniques program that I released this year.
I have gotten so many letters from guys who are using
that program to transform their lives... in more areas
than just women and dating.
It took a long time to plan, record, edit, design, and
put together... but it was worth it.
If you've been considering investing in it, then I
really invite you to do so. I've mentioned before that I
offer a 100% money-back guarantee, and I mean it. It's
really my intention that if you don't get a minimum of
TEN times the value out of this program that you just
send it back. Here's the link... enjoy:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/AdvancedSeries/
And if you haven't read Double Your Dating yet, then go
download a copy for yourself. It's the best introduction to
women and dating available, and it will help you get more
success and results starting TONIGHT.
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/eBook/
Go check them out, and I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.