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I gotta Man who makes me wanna kill.
I gotta Man who makes me wanna die.
I gotta Man who makes the devil pale.

He makes my heart tick.

ubmissive Needs/Wants taken from Submissivewomenspeak.net

These aren't my wants or needs ,these are the wants and needs of the sub from the website given.

I thought they were pretty funny. This sub is extremely selfish, it can't always be about her. Even the needs are stupid. If you are able to type out that you "may" be to submissive and need to have no way you can "escape" him; this means you're really not submissive and you're trying to set rules. I say just let your Dom be dominant in his own way.

  • I want to play frequently, much more frequently than he chooses to. - He must not be hitting it right...
  • I want him to do new things to me or more elaborate things to me than he already does. - Maybe you should help him plan something..
  • I want him to do all those active things he is incapable of doing because of his physical disability. -?
  • I want him to do the same things to me--and with the same intensity--as he did during our first week together, when I was in "submissive boot camp" and was being given a strong orientation. Sometimes I think that I just want to feel as intensely as I once did when I was new and exploring things. - This one is just extra silly
  • I want him to act like one of those dominants in the fiction books: tie me up and chain me in a dark, cramped cell overnight; have me kneel at his feet every second of the day unless he has something else for me to do; whip me constantly, so I'm always bruised or welted; make me walk around naked or half-naked at all times; you know, all the usual fantasy crap. And I want him to do this every single day, not just on special occasions! - Come on, is your Dom immortal? He has many other things to do...
  • I want him to be meaner to me, more strict, more stern, more rigid, more demanding and not be so nice whenever I ask him for something. I want him to refuse me, arbitrarily, or just for fun. - You must want a pimp
  • I want him to give me away to be played with by other dominants whom I find sexually attractive and safe. - This is pretty gross ...
  • I want never to freak out or yell at him, never get upset, never get resistant, never feel like a bad submissive. - The only one i agree with 
  • I want not to have to play that stupid card game that he likes so much virtually every stupid night of the year before we go to bed! - You want, want, want, what do you plan to give to him in return besides your submission?
  • I want him always to know, instantly, the right thing to say to calm me down and bring me back to my submissive self when I am upset. - Yes, her Dom must be immortal.

 

  • I need to feel completely safe with him and to be able to trust him with anything I might bring up or that might happen. I need to be able to trust his stability and know that he won't freak out, no matter what I throw at him. - Depends on how bad you freak out...
  • I need to feel actually controlled and owned and overpowered by someone who enjoys controlling another person and is not doing it simply to please me. - Of course
  • I need to know that when we have kinky sex he is truly sadistic and gets sexual enjoyment from doing what he does to me. It would crush me if I thought he were doing it just to "get me off." - Sounds just like the previous one
  • I need to know I cannot get away or escape from him, even if I wanted to. (Believe it or not, for someone who is strongly submissive, this is part of her "safety" need). -  Yup don't wanna get into this any further...its just to stupid.
  • I need to feel obedient to him, and I need to know that he's in charge and making all the major decisions (not because I can't--making large decisions is easy and even fun for me--but because if I were to make them, I would feel like the one in control of the relationship, a feeling that I hate). Well if he asked you to make a decision technically he is still in control
  • I need to know that I cannot bully him or push him or manipulate him or talk him into into doing whatever I want, into being some sort of perfect RoboDom. You shouldn't be topping from the bottom anyway, not intentionally 
  • I need to know he can solve any serious problems that come up between us. - ? I would believe he would too...



I'm sitting here trying to think up my actual wants or needs. There aren't any that really stand out except that i want Him here with me and i want Him to always be happy never frustrated, no matter how many obstacles life puts in front of Him. He is what i want and need.

Feelings

I hate the system. I hate how our taxes are worthless. I hate how we need to have a car, a. k. a. a polluting machine of death, insurance for that car, insurance for our health, insurance for our death, insurance for our home, and our computers, and our everything. I hate how we have to pay for such nonsense, how everything is so required.

I hate the stigmas of doing something other than what the masses do. I hate the prejudice. I hate the lack of health education in the schools. I hate how doctors can't do anything but take your money. I hate how the police don't care about your problems or you. I hate how the firemen don't care about saving your home, only the money they get paid, and putting out the fire the easiest way.

I hate how generalizations are so general, and how my arguments fall flat because I point out the truth in stereotypes. I hate how people can stand there, a cigarette between their fingers, and a soda in the other hand, and preach about this and that, and be listened to, and respected, while knowingly destroying their body, day in and day out.

I hate paper money, and the concept that we need it to eat, to be sheltered, to be loved. Just think, without money for clothing, you'd be naked, and shunned. Without money for food, you'd be starving and dying. Without money for shelter you're a bum. Without money for a car, a bus, a bike, you're stuck on your own two feet in cities too vast to walk through in a day. And without transpiration, food, clothing and shelter, not to mention a phone, a steady address and a piece of paper that says you spent time going through the bull shit that High School is then you can't even get a job that will pay you that money that you need.

What a nasty cycle that doesn't even make sense. And no one wants to listen to an eighteen year old black girl in Indianapolis, IN, who grew up without a lot of that blasted thing, money. Health should come first. Family should come first. Friends and love should come first. Effort and thought should come first. It should all come before our personal bank account and belongings. And yet everyone is in it for themselves, or their very small circle, and fuck everyone else, because they would do the same to you.

So I've been robbed. So I've been punched. So I've been teased and picked on. So I've been ditched, left alone, and kicked while I was down. So I've been dumped, talked about, told on for things I didn't do, even framed. And why? Because I didn't backstab them before they backstabbed me. I've got Mom, who is too busy to even catch up with herself.

That's what I have, and that's all I have. The computer is nice, something I wouldn't want to lose. The room is okay, running water and shelter are great and all, but when it comes down to it, I've got fone pperson, and that's my existence. This house isn't mine, no money was ever mine, every possession can be broken or gone in one moment's time. Even the people I love can be snatched from me.

And if everyone just stopped worrying so much about the minor details of everything, and instead reached out to each other with understanding and open arms, then it wouldn't be that way. But everyone as a whole doesn't even exist.

I don't exist in the sum called everyone, and neither do you my dear reader. We are expendable, and no matter how we know that everything is not ours, we'll never cope with it when it's all gone.

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1. I  have hairs around my boobs and I pull them ~ i feels nice

2. I like gay porn

3. I rarely make sense

4. I can masturbate to the sound of anyones voice.

5. I masturbate with my right hand.

6. I can be unusually perverted.

7. I love to be spanked, slapped or Humiliated - it gets me off.

8. I think i like the Gorean Lifestyle.

9. I love to sing.

10. I masterbate to much.

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