Somehow I am in the top 100 legends on Fubar. I am not sure what made me move up in the ranks, if it is amount of fans, friends, ratings...who knows. Those statistics and how you move up is sort of a mystery on Fubar.
But I did notice, when I went to view the top 100 legends, that about the top 50 of them, with the exception of 3 men(who use to actually use womens pics for their primary until fubar changed the rules), all of them have a bikini on, bra on, showing their body in some form or fashion.
I personally never will do that. I feel like what my body looks like in my underwear is something only my husband should see, and I sure wouldn't show it off to level up and make rank on a website.
Now don't get me wrong, I love Fubar and making Godmother was exciting, but if I had to show my goodies to do it, I never would have made it.
I think all of that comes from a serious lack of self esteem and a need for approval from others. Why else would somebody show theirselves to strangers to get random attention...? To boost their self esteem.
I feel pretty good about myself with my clothes on. :-)
Most of the poeple in the top ranks here also either have actual naked pics of themselves or porn pics of others...
Well I guess it is natural men would be drawn to that, but there are alot of women on Fubar too. Surely not everybody on the internet has low self esteem? I know there are alot of normal, average, men and women wit high self esteem who are not going to show you their goodies and don't really want to see yours either?
Just some random thoughts of mine for the day.
(Also pls read my Salute blog)
