I have an ok job, the pay is decent for the area I live in, but the assistant coach is a B!
Well I have let that go and just ignore her pretty much but someone I had befriended who i thought was a good friend seems to be trying to play sides between me and my co workers.
I did not expect this out of her at all. It is hard for me to make a friend and when I do make one seems I trust them to much and end up getting hurt. So here comes my wall again! It wont stay up long, but long enough for me to deal!
Her and I on Wed seem to have a disagreement about something and then all of a sudden i am the Bitch and I am the bad guy and everyone is starting to get upset with me and try to make my job hard on me. They only hear her side and dont ask me what is going on.
She claims she is not saying anything to them, but just funny how all of a sudden everyone is giving me the cold shoulder and she is hanging out with them and on occasion talk to me. She claims she is not upset with me and not causing any trouble but that is not how things seem to me, so final decision is screw it she can kiss my you know what!
I dont need friends like that, I need friends that are there for me when needed and I am there for them when they need me, but not a friend who only needs me but is not there for me!
p.s. maybe venting does help I am already starting to feel better! Still have more to vent about but this is all for the night!
Thanks to all who read this and any advice you want to give is welcomed!
Jennifer