I was reading on some things on lifes lessons and came across some that struck home. Now mind me, I usually take some of these so called self help and conditioning theories with a grain of salt,I have to admit that some I might agree with and then there are things that I sit back and say...yea-right...We all come with our own unique feeding manual so to speak...We each have our own needs and speeds for growth, no two people are going to be the same,or move forward at the rate of speed. Some people just don't have what we need. So why waste our time, banging on their doors, ringing their bells, demanding service? Once we get into our heads that some of these people are full of bull-shyt then we pay no heed to anything they have to say anyway,so move on.I have heard all my life. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree,, all we can do is watch and try to stay away from the so called ROTTEN APPLES,My mom used to say 1 rotten apple can spoil the whole basket..One meaning of this being, it's fruitless to ask bad apple people for advice. For instance, don't ask career-less people for career advice ... or relationship-less people for relationship advice.We can always tell who someone is by the circumstances which they grow in their own lives.{Watch and see how they live their lives} listen to a person carefully never take one indivisuals lives theory as the one and only way,What was right for them might not be right for me,or for you. And Remember...Although you know, that ... you know? You never really know.