There are a lot of different things I look for in a guy. Everyone wants something different.
= The guy has to be smart for sure. he has to be able to have a decent conversation, without his eyes glazing over. (yes, its happened so many times)
= He has to like to have fun. For example, if I get in the mood to go do something like go play volleyball on the beach, or go out for ice cream and walking around the park, or rent a lot of goofy movies and lay on the couch and have a maration. He has to be real.
= He has to be sensual. I know everyone would be like, Umm...hello, he is a MAN?. Sensual is a lot different from sexual. Sensual means that you can take your time, and be completely consumed in the other person. wanting to pleasure eachother beyond all dreams. Where emotions are involved too, and not just bodies.
= He has to understand me. Like if I have a shitty day at work, and then tell him how bad it was, he immediately knows what to do to make me smile, and forget about everything, and just be happy to talk to him.
= He has to treat me like a princess. I deserve that. The reason I say that is because I reciprocate the feelings. I will adore him as much as he adores me. I want to feel important. I want to KNOW that I am important to him, and I want everyone else to know how he feels.
= Anyone who says looks don't matter is BSing. Looks do matter to a certain extent, and I agree that they aren't what makes you care about someone. There has to be an initial attraction there for something else to grow.
= He has to be able to look beyond himself, and help other people. He has to have a huge heart.
I want someone who will cherish me, and give me what I deserve. I am so tired of kissing frogs. I think its time for my prince to arrive and sweep me off my feet. No relationship is free of issues, but it's working past them is what makes you stronger.