I had it brought to my attention today that someone was upset with me because I posted a bulletin asking for friends, family and fans to stop by and rate my salutes and they say I never do any favors back. This begs the question.... do some only give to receive? I was always raised to believe that when doing a favor you are owed only a thanks and if the receiver of that favor chooses to do more then that is their choice. I guess for me...I only ask for things from friends that I KNOW I am willing to give back. I have many friends I have asked to fan me and rate my page...but in the same breath I say to please let me know if I havent done it for them so I can make that right. I have never professed to be a mind reader yet some think that I know what matters to them and what doesnt. Some people just like to look at pics and rate them because they find it fun and yet others want the same thing back. I told this person that all anyone has to do is ASK me to help them out and I WILL but I will not run around exerting energy among 600+ people that dont care about points or rates either way. I guess I have learned the hard way that if you want something you go after it. I harbor no ill will toward this person but I think ripping me apart in a bulletin comment was the WRONG way to handle a matter with a friend and if they think that THAT was ok...then they never were my REAL friend. Real friends would have came to me one on one and said something. So just to clarify to ALL my friends, family and fans, I HATE leaving comments on peoples pages....I dont use blinkies and hate all the scrolling one has to do to get to the bottom of some pages...also some take forever to load or dont at all and jam my pc. ANYONE wanting to add me as a friend will be accepted as long as they dont seem to be a blatant perv or racist...though making it to my family is much harder. I WILL rate pics and such if people ask because they are close to leveling up or whatever. I will fan just about anyone because I ask people to do it for me. Please understand that I dont have enough patience or attention span to keep up with EVERY friend I have and if you feel slighted..I am sorry...please speak up and I will remind you that you are still important...I just have a terrible memory and attention span lol. All my friends matter to me and my family even more so. I would hope that all of you now know that if you want some attention in some way to please let me know.....I dont mind helping.
