mrknockumout's blog: "Are Men Really Dogs?"

OK I was talking to a friend of mine(female) and she was having "man" trouble...again...To skip the trouble and get to the poin of the titile of this post, I do not understand why you get upset and hurt when the guy you are with is being the guy that you chose.

Now Im not saying men are superior or anything close to that! BUT! If you go out, meet a rough, tough, "I dont give a damn about anything but me" guy, why do you expect him to be different with you? He doesnt care about his own mama but he should change because you are in the picture? I dont think so, as a matter of fact I know so, Im a man lol. Now Im not saying a bad boy cant be good to you or turn over a new leaf so to speak, what I am saying is that if you like bad boys, expect him to be a bad boy! Dont expect him to be a bad boy all the time except for when he is with you. 

Im not a bad boy but Ive been called one. I just handle my business when it comes(Thats a whole other blog lol) but back to buisness...Here is a scenario:

You meet Peter, Peter is a 24 yr old super single man, loves to party and he has a group of asswhole friends that you cant stand because thay are stereotypical 24 yr old guys. Now right there a flag SHOULD go up. Petere might not be the sensitive understanding nuturing faithful man you are looking for but he is just so...whatever it is yall ladies say for irrestable guys. You notice him and he notices you, bla bla bla yall hook up. Now for the first 2 moths at least, he is all into you and vise versa(the smoke hasent cleared yet, in relationship time, you two are still partying everyting is new and we all love new!) At this point in time there isnt one single flaw with each other. At the same time, Peter is still out here and there doing this and that, you all talk on the phone a bit but you usually dont see Peter till late evening or night time. or when its kick it time, What do you think he is doing! He might not be cheating but he isnt thinking about you, he is thinking about what club he and his boys are going to and how messed up he is going to get before he gets there.  (FLAG 2 if you caught it) after 4 months he doesnt call as much, or stay as long or even come over as much, not because he doesnt like you but because he is bored and he alread knows exactly what is going to happen, we are going to talk and she is going to want to cuddle and go out and show me off to her friends and walk around the mall arm in arm or holding hands and let everyone know that I am hers. Seem familiar yet? next thing you know you go out, he is talking to another girl, or he just stops all together or tell you its over or the worst one, you catch the infamous text message and you realise, he dropped you for someone else maybe not all the way but you are no longer number 1.

Now here is where it gets all messed up. SEX

men and women hold sex at very different standards. Honestly sex is not that important to us men. Well let me rephhrase it, the meaning of sex isnt, why do you think men can have so many partners and not care, because sex is sex to us, we get mad if our other half is sexing someone else up, but it isnt a sacred thing that we give out as....a really special gift im sorry it just isnt, if we want to give you a special gift, we buy you some expensive shoes or something materialistic, men are tangible creatures our woth in our brains is based more on things and achievememts that feeling or emotion unlike women generally. 

Ladies love sex but sex is alot more sacred to a woman that to man, romance and eroticism and al  that is for women. Men are happy getting it on with theire pants around thier ankles and the terminator on tv, ladies you all put more into it, lingere, candles, games, baby making music stuff like that, it is an event for you not an act. OK, men do that too, yes we do, thats because we know that that, drives you all crazy! trust me all the candles and sexy underwear in your arsenal dont mean a thing to us except for the fact that, " dam this is nice, she looks bangin and aww im about to get some" Think about it. Go to a bachelor's pad, he has sports stuff video games etc books and magazines and a porno stash. bachelorett, a collection of magazines with 10 ways to drive him mad and 50 sexiest things to do. scented candles, a special drawer or box with all your goodies in it. you have your regular night clothes and the ones you wear when you know he is coming over. Men keep our condoms in the sock drawer and wear the same drawls we had on all day we might bring a pair with us lol. Thasa how you know we are a little too comfortable, we come from the court or field and go straight to your crib with no clothes. That means IM not staying long!

With all that being said about sex, the main mistake ladies do is give in too early. We all know men want sex. Its no secret men think their carrots alot. Yes we want sex the feeling the rush of adrenaline etc we are not specifically looking for the connection it brings, the bond between two people becoming one to express their feelings for each other. thats is it right there! sex gets boring after a while with the same person, you have work to keep your relationship spicy! you and peter arent even in a relationship, you are just dating so you want it. he always wants it, of course he is going to take it and kinda press for it. Its like food and we are always hungry. So here it is, you know absolutly nothing of value about each other, you do not know each other, and have not gone through adversity together as a team but you are having sex like youve been together for a year or two. WRONG! sex is the most prized posession a man gets get from a woman and he got the prize with out working for it. He doesnt even know why your favorite color is what it is or what was your reasoning behind you changing your hiar from past your shoulder to above your ears and dyed. He just knows its different but he already got the most prized posession which should really be your mind but you never made it that far! Life is a gome sport whatever you want to call it. Well if you play basketball and you can shoot from one end of the court and make it in the hoop at the other end 7 out of ten times, are you really going to dribble to the goal? No, you dont need to. You already make the shot without the work! Now do ya see what I mean...

Im not saying all men are bad dogs and all men want is sex and thats it. By no means is that the point The poin it is, know what you have, dont make your weenie dog a pit bull, no matter how much like a pit bull it may seem at times, it is always going to be weenie dog! I am a good man and I believe that saying that there are no good men left is bull! There are lots of us, but, if you forfeit the game so to speak why would we put in the time to play? Now the bad do out number the good but ladies yall arent the best either, there are just way more women in the world so the female stats are better lol. IF he or she for that matter is a club/bar hopper from thursday to sunday, Dont espect too much. Enjoy the ride and get off, take it for what it is not what you want iit to be.

well, I believe in done please fell fre to comment, I encourage it! let me know if you agree or not, did it make sense did ya leans anything or do ya think its a crock of $%@*

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