50 HH rekts and bombs plz Dr Sandy's blog: "MORE THOUGHTS"

why oh why do some men have to be so obsessive and possive? Some that you dont even know other than online and talking with them on the phone. but nooooo they have to cop an attitude when your on the phone with someone else or if you dont drop everything or wait by the phone for that call?? i mean come on can a girl have a life with out being questioned about everything, from what she eats. to what shes doing with her family. her boyfriend, her daugher? I mean whose business is it what shes doing with her time. she gets accused of ignoring ppl when she is in fact in the crapper or getting her daughter to bed. The girl has to unplug the phone at night so it dont ring in the middle of the night. What else can she do. When she goes out of town, his attitude is even worse, he calls her friends trying to get information out of them about her. her friends are smart and dont give him what he wants. they dont call her because he wants them to. while shes away with her family. Why are some ppl like this. why are they so controlling or try to control something that they cant?