i am a simple man a father of 4 soon to be 5 a loving husband a person then y is it that when a man is let to be his own person dose every one that he loves lets go and never says i love you or f off or just a wave well i say it this way you make your own life if they choose to let go hen that's ther life not yours it took me 27 years to let go of my mom and brother yea i love them but its time that i start my life and now i have and i love it