I ask everyone if you casually say hello or send a gift, that you please keep your account to yourself.
I do NOT appreciate thanking someone for a gift by saying "Thank you Hun" which is something I often reply to gifts, only to receive a nasty "HE's not your Hun" as a reply.(Obviously a woman logged on to this mans account and was so rude as to read his mail..thank GOD I am divorced!!!)
For me, Fubar is a place I go for entertainment and to talk to friends. My real life has enough of it's own Drama. I do not need to innocently be pulled into someone elses Drama.